I am happy to report me and my gf will be celebrating our 10th month anniversary this month febuary 12th! It has been a bumpy road of trust, living and learning and loving again. I finally figured out that I needed to calm down and just no be scared. That just because I was with my partner for 13yrs then she left me, I shouldn't be scared of a new love. We are both serious people who are in love and I believe her when she says she loves me. I am literally taking one day at a time. Its scary to start over with someone new. I am willing to keep my life on track and be that rock she needs if she is willing to be there for me too.