I Am Not Over My Ex

i miss my ex and i love her terribly. our relationship is over and it hurts and all i want is to stop the pain i am feeling and to move fwd...i cry myself to sleep and she is happy whereas i am hurting...she cut me off her life and doesnt even want to know abt me....i feel so alone and all i want is to b able to talk to ppl like me who r hurting and i cant talk to anyone.pls help me

DaBrokenSoul DaBrokenSoul
31-35, F
2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

It is the worst feeling in the world! I was with somebody for 3 years and was cut out much like you explained. My body and mind went into lockdown for about 2 months. I was extremely depressed and suicidal. I started counseling to deal with the pain, and I am still in it to this day. Grieving is an important part, and the hardest. I didn’t really face the pain until almost a year later. I was convinced she would come back. We tried the whole friendship thing, but it just beat me up even more. To this day I still miss her sometimes, the friendship mainly. It has been about 2 ½ years and I am with somebody new now, but it is a long hard journey. <br />
Know that it takes time but it will get better. Any time you need to vent or anything drop me a line.

While I cannot relate directly, since I have never been in an adult romantic relationship, you have my sympathy and best wishes!<br />
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Let yourself grieve! It is a healthy release, both emotionally and physically!<br />
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When you are ready to look again, you will find that special lady, one who will be kind and loving to you!