Like Being A Virgin All Over Again
i've been in long-term heterosexual relationships all my life, but after my last boyfriend, i finally realised that i really am drawn to women. where i live, people are fairly open-minded & i do have some gay & lesbian friends. but people have always thought of me as straight. i recently fell hard for a girl & though i know we can be soulmates, she doesn't feel the same way about me. there's no hope in that department as i know you can't force love.
but i want to come out as openly bi-sexual (even though i am now more attracted to women than men, i prefer to see people as individuals, not based on gender) & i'm no shrinking wallflower, but i don't even know where to start! there's even an androgynous girl who's interested in me, but i'm kinda afraid to tell her that i haven't actually been with a girl before. it's like being a virgin all over again!