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Like Being A Virgin All Over Again

 i've been in long-term heterosexual relationships all my life, but after my last boyfriend, i finally realised that i really am drawn to women. where i live, people are fairly open-minded & i do have some gay & lesbian friends. but people have always thought of me as straight. i recently fell hard for a girl & though i know we can be soulmates, she doesn't feel the same way about me. there's no hope in that department as i know you can't force love. 

but i want to come out as openly bi-sexual (even though i am now more attracted to women than men, i prefer to see people as individuals, not based on gender) & i'm no shrinking wallflower, but i don't even know where to start! there's even an androgynous girl who's interested in me, but i'm kinda afraid to tell her that i haven't actually been with a girl before. it's like being a virgin all over again!

haku7 haku7 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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Oh sweetie just tell her , she'll understand and will take the lead . Just relax and let yourself respond. First time is never easy but if you relax you can quickly pickup on what the other woman likes . She will encourage you . Don't worry . Wear something sexy ,nothing to awkward to get off i.e. Tights and tight jeans..and just look gorgeous the rest falls into place. Good luck and god sake tell us how you got on we will be bursting to know. Lol xx

thanks for all your encouragement! i suppose it would be advisable to tell my first girl that it's my first time?

Its so sexual being with another woman . The sex is so intense and the pleasure is an amazing high lol x

I promise it will be more intense than anything you've felt with a man. I've been heterosexual all my life until recently.I always knew i was attracted to girls but i did nothing about it.I'm having a great time discovering this other side of me.<br />
BRAVO!

Don't worry that it's your first time, just go for it! The first time with a woman is beyond wonderful--just think of what you like done to you and do it to her, that's all. Women truly do know what other women like much more than men do, because we know how it feels; also, a woman will never make remarks about how it's "taking too long," or want to know "did you come?" "was it good for you?"<br />
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Relax, honey, and have a great time!

Hi x sweetie don't worry about your first time , like any first time relax and go with the flow or follow the other girl. As a female you know what you like done then do that to the other woman . Relax and enjoy the sex .you will see and feel what you have been missing lol x

Hi x sweetie don't worry about your first time , like any first time relax and go with the flow or follow the other girl. As a female you know what you like done then do that to the other woman . Relax and enjoy the sex .you will see and feel what you have been missing lol x