Another One Bites The Dust

I was recently in a relationship that lasted for 2 years. We had a wonderful beginning, weird middle and inconsistent end. I was more of the pleaser in the relationship, but am reading self help books to find myself. I am still in love with her, but am not glutton for the character assaults and feeling of being unwanted. At the same time I miss her and want her around. I know this feeling will eventually die down, but damn its hard to simmer it down. Im also afraid to get back out there.

lidiadeeds lidiadeeds
31-35, F
5 Responses Mar 2, 2010

Same here! I completely understand you. Be happy and right one is coming to you.

Thanks again! Great to read these this morning. Made my day :).

Time will heal my darling , focus on what you want and try not to relive the but if ,was it me , why , love is hare to let go of so don't worry about you feelings to much their will be all over the place. Find something you like to do and work with it . Be with family and friends , take what was positive and build the future, remember a relationship is a two way joint venture , love and trust and an understanding of your partners needs . Go on out and enjoy your life , the right ones just around the corner waiting . Good luck x

I understand that this is a difficult time for you because it's recent, but it's going to hurt for a bit. So many memories good and bad will cross your mind but things will become easier as time passes. In relationships we all say hurtful things out of anger whether we mean them or not, but once it's been said it's out there. You will have to try and find something to occupy your mind to keep you from playing the hurt and anger over again in your mind. I have been there and done that and I know it's easier said then done. No one deserves to be treated and talk to in such a way that it insults your intelligence, but it does happen. You have to try and stay strong and focus on your getting better, let the other lie dormant for now. I wish you the best in your healing process.

Thanks very much : )