I Am A Life Long Crossdresser
I finally got up enough courage to talk to my wife about my feminine side again. She has known about it since before we were married,but we really never talked about it. She listened as told her about my urges to dress. How this is something that I have felt since I was 5 years old. I told her what I have in my small wardrobe. I mentioned how I was very jealous to hear a guy friend of ours, has a pair of pumps. (I had not bought any shoes at that time.) She seemed to be trying to understand.
She asked if I had homosexual feeling. I told her the truth, that I only had desires for her.
She mentioned counseling. I knew she would. She was not pushy about. I will think about that, it can't hurt.
She suggested that wearing a gown to bed might help curb my urges. I almost completely melted when she suggested that.
She said we could work it out. I could always tell her I need some "alone time" when the urges were real strong. She is not ready to see me dressed and I understand this. After over 20 years she knows I still love her more than anything. I feel very relieved.
I now have to be supportive of her as she works this out in her mind.
She asked if I had homosexual feeling. I told her the truth, that I only had desires for her.
She mentioned counseling. I knew she would. She was not pushy about. I will think about that, it can't hurt.
She suggested that wearing a gown to bed might help curb my urges. I almost completely melted when she suggested that.
She said we could work it out. I could always tell her I need some "alone time" when the urges were real strong. She is not ready to see me dressed and I understand this. After over 20 years she knows I still love her more than anything. I feel very relieved.
I now have to be supportive of her as she works this out in her mind.
By:
MarciaSue
Age:
46-50
,
Male
