I Am A LithHello everyone,
My name is Peanut, and I am a Lithromantic. Many people do not know what this romantic orientation is, as it is very rare. And from research I have done into it, it seems that about the majority of Liths are ISFJ's. But I have barely done any research and still have much to discover about it.
Lithromantics are individuals who experience romantic love but do not desire their feelings to be reciprocated. Lithromantic people may want to avoid dating and romantic relationships entirely, or may be comfortable with such a relationship or even desire it, as long as their love is not returned in a romantic way. Some lithromantics may even accept reciprocated love, but do not require it to find a relationship fulfilling, as most romantics do.
Now I am a little different as I do not care if the person of my affection feels the same way about me and wishes to return love. It is just that I do not require them to love me the same way to be able to have a crush on them. I can honestly say that having a relationship is tough as it is hard to express how I work to people. I am often viewed as a freak to others. I know I am not, but I must say that it gets tiring trying to explain why I am the way I am.