I am a L o v e l a u l.By defintion and by nature I am only interested in loving and creating...
However, just like any being being, you can make me angry...
When hurt or inconvenienced, the first thing I'll try to do is "get away from you".
Where people run into problems is when they don't leave me "an out" or a way to do that.
This could be some noisemaking d__chebag who I have to sit next to hours everyday for example. If I have the option to pack up and leave, I'll take that first.
Given no out, usually the goal is to find ways to make it worth the other person's while to find somekind of "out" (or atleast stop the painful or annoying thing it is doing).
And if you are depriving me of something I need to survive, then either you or that poor laul is eventually going to die a pretty painful death.