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One Night.

PLEASE DON'T JUDGE OR BE MEAN TO ME. i have already beaten myself up enough. My boyfriend is away at bootcamp & he comes home in about a week or so, and one night at a party I got super drunk. This guy came up to me and started kissing my neck and I told him no no go away and things like that. But I did kiss him back eventually, not for long and not many. I feel horrible, I don't want my boyfriend to find out when he comes home. I didn't know what I was doing, I was mad at my boyfriend for cheating on me before he left (right in my face!!) I know that's no excuse but I have no idea what to do. I regret it so much, im terrified he's going to find out. Even though no one he knows was at the party besides my bff, and that guy is a friend of mine....
An Ep User An EP User 4 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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I personally think you should tell him. My cousin cheated on her marine and eventually it got back to him bc his best guy fried heard and it eventually worked out and now there happily married going on 3 yrs. but it would have been easier if she just told him herself and took the risk of losing him bc she was being honest

There are obviously some trust issues, or there will be. Be completely honest with him and don't play the blame game. He may have cheated on you first, but hat doesn't make it okay. Talk it out and be prepared that your relationship may not make it out intact, but it is not just your fault. You both obviously made mistakes. Be honest with yourself before talking with him about it and I would suggest talking to him in person after the graduation.

I would tell him, you can't have a relationship based on lies.

As far as anyone else is concerned, y'all are even right now. He should've thought before he cheated [and you as well, though i expect you may not have if you had known he had been faithful to you throughout?].