My husband is in the British Force. We live in the UK. However I am American. So we found out my husband was going to be deployed. So we went back to the U.S. So I could have a bit of help with our children and be near friends. He had been deployed for the last 17 months. So he was told that he wouldn't be going away anymore at the end of April.
So I move back to the UK May 1st and we get the children settled and into a good routine. We have a 11yr old daughter and 4 and 3yr old boys. Then it comes to about a week and a half ago Steven Goes into work and they turn to him and say were really sorry but were going to have to send you away again. On June 8th, because one of the guys he works with has hurt his shoulder and been on medical down grade. Mind you this guy has been on Medical down grade for the last 2 years so how they thought that would change is beyond me.
I don't drive in the UK and there is nothing really around where we live. It bites. I don't go to any mum's and tots group. Because as I was told before I am different and a loud American so I just stick to myself. There is to much drama with being involved with anything they have on Camp (Base).
So Steven is gone and our kids won't listen to me at all. I had to go to the Doctor's today and they were horrible. I feel like a horrible parent and I know people are looking at me like your kids are out of control. Why do you allow them to act this way. Honestly I just feel like checking myself into the mental ward for a break. Or sending them to the local Zoo because my boys are acting like monkey's lol I don't know what to do to get them to mind that I don't already do.
Does anyone have any suggestions on what to do? x