Not Good With Titles

I've always been that guy that other guys are like 'how does he do it' cuz they here from women and their friends about me...

Back when I first became sexually alive,  I found myself having unbelievable sex fantasies involving pain, both inflicted and recieved, as well as that, for as long as i can remember, i've had an auto-erotic asphyxiation which was most likely where my s&m desires began when i was a young'n.  after a while the fantasies progressed into things like fantasy rape (not real rape... real rape i find creepy as hell) the usage of rope and chains, paddles sticks, flails, gasmasks and a bunch of other things that kinda made me feel uneasy but super turned on at the same time

I talked with my girlfriend at the time about these fantasies and she got really really turned on and we started playing out those fantasies, she'd tell me about hers and then we'd play out hers. 

After our relationship ended,  I started finding it really really hard to find women who found the idea of s&m a turn on, for one reason or another.  Now I find myself turning to the online community to hopefully find either a good fling or a meaningful relationship with a woman who is into s&m as well (anyone know of any other communities on the net?? i find them to be few and far between)
mmmtastypain mmmtastypain
22-25, M
3 Responses Jul 28, 2007

there's also bdsmsingles.com

hehe, thanky. I've checked out those sites, and im working on finding my digi cam to get a profile up on ALT.com:)

have you managed to sign on to ALT.com? also you might consider trying the site kink.com<br />
if you haven't got on either of those they not only provide links to other sites they have what you could efficiently call personals for men, women, couples, and tran/cross genders that are looking for the alternative lifestyle. the links offered on there might help if the sites aren't for you. hope that helps! <br />
:)