New to This

Hey I am new to this whole thing. I am not really sure how this works. I am new to the military girlfriend thing too and I am still trying to figure out how that works...hahahaha well I figured that out I mean I am still understanding how the waiting thing works hahaha. I moved from my friends and they didn't understand so we are not really on good terms because I chose my BF instead. Oh well they should not have been so lame. Anyway, so now I am starting a new life in a new place. My Boyfriend is on deployment so I came to stay with my mom for a couple of months in Orlando and I will move back to Washington in June. My boyfriend will not be home until October. lame lame lame I am currently looking for a temp job in Orlando. That is about it. So this is me if anyone knows how crapy it is to be stuck in a temporary place knowing you have something amazing to look forward to but, you can't get to it I praise you. I had no idea that women were doing this. Don't get me wrong I love him enough to wait for years I am just saying if you have are seasoned at this you are very strong.  Well so this is me if you see me on here commenting it is me! KT

Kootiebug Kootiebug
22-25, F
3 Responses Mar 25, 2008

I am a little over a year in to my military relationship. My man was training from early march till the end of june and then was gone... I miss him sooooooo much, and this past year has been incredibly hard but I am looking at the home stretch! He will be stateside very very soon and home shortly after that I hope. My family didn't understand why I would put myself through it, and the few friends I have either don't support our relationship or have just stopped talking to me cause he is all I ever think and talk about. The way I see it, we are stronger as a couple because of the deployment. We grew on a more intimate level rather than a purely physical one. Not gonna lie, I will probably be all over him the second I see him and I won't stop touching him in some way, shape, or form for a while... lol. But if you wanna talk or even just vent, I am here. OK? :)

I am sorry your friends didn't understand. i know how that can be.<br />
the army thing is kinda of confusing.. i wish you much luck..and if you need anyone to talk to i am here.<br />
i am at the moment playing the waiting game..since he just left for iraq...<br />
but much luck to you.

Thanks wow Texas and MINN are so far apart. I wish you luck too. It is so out of reach well I am off again today on a job hunt. woohoo it sucks.....hahahaa thanks for the luck.