What Really Grinds My Gears
Ladies, Just because your man is away doesnt mean that you exactly have to be super girl, Do not lie to him about your feelings. Don't supress things that bother you until he comes home. And dont be overly worried about stressing him out. BREATHE! It is ok to show some emotion, and break down every now and then. If he thinks your doing that much fine with out him, it will make him feel like he is not needed. And always be honest with your siginificant other. BEcause if you dont it could possibly build resentment in the long run by supressing your pain. If he really loves you he will not only consider his stress, but be concerned of your feelings to. Here is what im NOT saying: Do not complain about everything because yes you can stress him out. Dont allow him to think that you can't handle it because then he may think that you plan on leaving, and you dont want to face the results of those feelings. And Yes, always be understanding. Im just tired of people telling me that "Don't bother him with your feelings until he gets home, he's under enough stress" "Be strong for him" BLah BLah BLah the reality is ladies not only are we human, but we are MORE emotional then men. And they understand that. What im saying is Ladies Let's keep a balance. Dont be too emotional and stressed out, BUT Lets not act liek everything is all peaches and cream. Rant Complete.