Sexual Frustrations, Please Help! :(

Hey everyone!

I've known my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. When I met him, I was going into my freshmen year in college and neither one of us thought it would be a good idea for me to be tied down, so we casually dated on and off. Finally this past July we made things official, but he left for SEAL training in August. When I saw him after his basic graduation, we didn't really have any "alone" time as they didn't have overnight leave. The little time we did have was disappointing. I didn't feel like there was much of a spark, but I chalked it up to the lack of romance and the planned "quickie" that it was. I visited him again over Thanksgiving. It was just he and I and we had our own hotel and such. Things were great emotionally, but I had no physical desire. It was JUST that time of the month so I don't know if maybe it was just hormones or if I simply have lost the "spark". If anyone has any advice on how to rekindle the physical relationship I had with him, that'd be great. I just expected that we would just about just on each other as soon as we saw each other, but that unfortunately wasn't the case.

AshleyNavy AshleyNavy
Nov 26, 2012