Ait Problems

Things between me and my soldier were great when he was in BCT. He was always so busy so when he got to talk to me on Sundays I could hear how much he missed me in his voice. Now that he has been in AIT we have had more arguements then we have had in our whole 10 months of being in a realtionship. He barely texts me sometimes because he is hanging out with his roomates. And the worst thing is those females. Those thristy females at his AIT. smh He takes pictures with them and talks to numerous ones. Like he texts some of them which isnt fair because he deleted all of the male contacts out of my phone. Ive seen some of their conversations on twitter and they clearly flirt with him. This one girl even told me "your boyfriend thinks im pretty" even though he said he didnt say it. On top of all that he got drunk last weekend and someone told on him and for a while he didnt know his punishment but he just now found out that he just got extra cleaning hours.(btw he never drinks) And all he wants to talk about is sex and he gets upset when i dont want to. I just dont know what to do about it anymore, Its like idk who he is anymore and its starting to make me question our relationship because its not the man I fell in love with. Any advice?
dlgmorris95 dlgmorris95
2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

communication is key, my personal oppinion is that he isn't treating you very fairly. I'd through it back at him like "how would you feel, this distance is killing me i'm feeling insecure". I'd be mad....that's just me though,.

Talk to him, which is clearly hard, but just try. Tell him exactly how you feel. The key to a relationship is trust and communication. About the Sex, that's how my bf is. He isn't getting any, so he wants to talk about it. Sometimes you just have to talk about it with him, but when you don't wanna, just tell him.