I'm Allowed To Be Upset Right?

So today my man got in, and it's been awhile since i saw him last. I got kinda upset that i wasn't the first person he saw, that he didn't wanna to rush over here and see me first thing. I know that's what i would've done. But instead he goes Christmas shopping. Then when he gets here, he tells me his parents don't want me staying at their house a lot, so i couldn't stay the night tonight. What? Seriously? His parents love me to death and they don't want me staying the night? Sorry i like sleeping next to my guy. So this upset me too. And i told him i was, but he couldn't see why i was upset about all this. Kept saying i expected every single moment with him. Which i don't, i do expect to spend a lot of time with him, but not every moment. The marine corps has really changed him a lot, and i just want to sirens as much time as i can getting to know this new person. That's makes since right? Ahh, it just sucks to have all this the day he gets home, and that i can't spend his first day back with him. It's not wrong for me to be this upset is it?