The Past

Before my man deployed I was having a lot of trust issues with him. He's never been unfaithful.. But I just couldn't keep my jealousy under control. There were a few instances where I got very upset.. Maybe I was over exaggerating? My point is, after the nine months are up and he comes home, should I leave all of that in the past, or bring it up and try to get closure. I don't want to be annoying when he's back, but I'm not sure I can go on like nothing because I never got to tell him how I felt before he left. Any advice?
JuliTirado JuliTirado
18-21, F
1 Response Jan 28, 2013

If hes never actually done anything to make you not trust him then (I kno it's hard,I have trust issues too) but you should leave It in the past. Unless you had concrete evidence of him doing you wrong. There's nothing worse than being accused of something you never did and having to hear about it all the time with no way to prove yourself. Hope this helps. I'm very jealous n have been through stuff like this too (easier to give advice than to listen to it coming from yourself lol) I'm here if you ever wanna talk, I have a feeling we have a lot in common. I'm always here my boyfriends in bootcamp. Stay strong <3

You're so sweet!!! And yes he has done a few things I have evidence for but he already said a thousand times that it was nothing and I don't want him to feel the way you said, like helpless. This was very helpful actually, I really want to move past this cause he has. And yes talk to me anytime! He's over seas right now :( so I can relate to whatever you're going through!! I have a feeling we have a lot in common, I'm here for you!