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I Am a Military Girlfriend

How Am I Supposed To Handle This..

By: ChelleBelle1
Written on February 7th, 2013
How do you keep yourself together when you think your going to be able to see each other again in a couple weeks and then find out things just go extended for another 3 months. Am I supposed to be this broken? Am I over reacting? Because I haven't even been able to talk to him since he told me. The entire time we're on the phone I'm choking back tears. I'm not eating I'm not sleeping... I can't feel like this for 3 more months. I was doing SO good with things and I was so excited for him to come home and now I'm shattered. I know I only come on here to *****. But I don't have anyone here that can help me and tell me if it's normal to feel like this. I'm numb.. I'm forgetting things about him. Help... How do I do this for 3 more months...
By: ChelleBelle1
Age: 18-21 , Female
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4 responses
  • dlgmorris95
    dlgmorris95

    I understand exactly where u are coming from, u get that call and your thinking, he has.to be joking. Its so hard.but i learned to expect it with this lifestyle. We all need a punching bag cause this can get.fustrating lol feel better

    Feb 8
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  • MyBunnie
    MyBunnie

    I definitely undersand & its hard. Just remember no matter what always let the positive outweigh the negative. You can get through this, you got it!

    Feb 8
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  • HoneybeeUSMgf
    HoneybeeUSMgf

    I know, I know, you had a lot of stuff done and planned, as I had when he texted me last year saying he couldn't come. I had to cancel hotels reservations, dinners, activities...and once again when he asked me to travel and see him but I couldn't go and now I get to see him in 6 months :S but again, I survived.

    There you go, I have the worst case scenario, so if I can you can

    Feb 8
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  • AFgirlfriend20
    AFgirlfriend20

    I know what it's like to feel numb. But tell yourself this...as much as that feeling hurts, nothing could compare to the feeling of not having him in your life at all. Don't give up now. 3 months may seem like a long time, but it'll go by fast. Take it in small strides. Look at the positive things. You are still with him. You get to hear his voice. And when you finally see him after that 3 months the feeling will be incredible. Hang in there. You are strong. It's not going to be easy, but it will be worth it :)

    Feb 8
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