I guess I'm no longer a military girlfriend.... This has been a rough evening for me. My boyfriend finally told me that he doesn't have feelings for me anymore and doesn't want to keep trying and pretending. It is absolutely heartbreaking!! I love him and I will miss him. But I know that no matter what I do he does not want to try and force a relationship, and I have to accept that. He was such an angel for me in many ways, but as long as he is happy I will be able to move on. This is tough! I was not ready for this. There will always be a special place in my heart for him. But I know that I have to focus on my own life at this point and be a good role model for all my students this year!
Thank you to all who shared kind words and encouragement over the past few weeks, it has really helped me!
lougirl88 lougirl88
26-30, F
5 Responses Aug 27, 2014

I am very sorry to hear that. I was once a military girlfriend too. :( Always remember when a door closes, another window opens. It will hurt at first but time will eventually heal all wounds. Be strong! :)

I'm sorry about read this! but keep strong! everything is gonna be ok! God has a plan for u and is perfect remeber that! :)

Sorry to hear that. Like any type of negative shake up or change, the first night is usually the worst. I was there not too long being told that someone was giving up on you, or what was called we/us at that point. It sucks. Hope it goes as smooth as possible.

I went through the same thing. My bf is deployed and told me during deployment. Now he won't talk to me at all. It's strange... It hurt. Just remember there's a plan and the plan is good

im sorry to hear that. just remember wjhats meant o be will always find a way. if you still ever want to talk dont hesitate to message me