I have two beautiful boys who are growing way too fast.I never knew it was possible to love someone this much but each day I love them more and more.Thier father and I divorced three years ago, the reason being that he realised he was gay.We have remained on friendly terms for the sake of the kids,but generally he wants little to do with them. Last night I found out that he has a serious boyfriend and will be bringing him to all family events, starting tomorrow with his moms birthday party.So I called his parents and told them that I hope no offense is taken but I will not be bringing the kids to any family event the boyfriend is at.I will never tell my kids anything bad about their dad, but I do not feel ok with them seeing dad with another man. They are only four and five. I dont discriminate against it but I do not personally feel that alternative lifestyles are right, I want to raise my kids with my values.I do not think they are ready for it and I know I am not ready. Am I doin the right thing?