I am a recently divorced mother of 2. My ex husband is not the father of my son, but is my daughter's father. Our relationship was built on lies and deception that I've just found out about after the divorce. My ex is a big loser who doesn't want to pay child support to help his child. We are battling with courts, attorneys, etc. and I am sick of all the stress and frustration. I have never picked good men in my life and I know I need to find a way to change that pattern, so it does not keep happening.