Very Sad Mom

I love my children. My problem is I can't talk to my husband if I try to talk to him we get in a fight he wants to do what he wants when he wants. Today he pulled put.of the bank and got a P.O. Box he doesn't want me to pay bills any more. I have a hard time being honest with my husband...he yells alot at me and the kids.
Nogood4him Nogood4him
36-40, F
1 Response Mar 6, 2012

I can understand your concern about your marriage. From the little you've told us, some red flags go up for me. His controlling behavior is a problem and NOT your fault. It often indicates an abusive relationship. It is damaging to you and your children and can often escalate into physical abuse (if it hasn't already). You deserve better. There is help out there if and when you want/need it. Contact your local domestic violence hotline, support group. Sometimes it's easier to talk to someone outside your family, friends network.