Me, My Son, And My Brother

my name is jenn, and i am  a 25 year old single mother to my son, who is 5 and my brother, who just turned 16. I have had custody of Trey, the 16 year old and my youngest brother, Christian, who is 12 for the past 8 years. They have always lived with a friend of mine, who was a foster care mom, and able to provide for them. 4 years ago, my brother trey was diagnosed with a bi-polar disorder, he began to lash out and bow-up on my friend. this went on for months, until i decided to take him myself. for  the past 2 years, it's been me, my son and my brother.    it's hard to explain to my 5 year old that his uncle trey is not his brother. in his mind, they both live with me, and i take care of both of them, so surely they must both be my kids...lol

for the most part, i have not had any trouble with trey. he is a good influence on my son, and helps me out around the house from time to time. recently, he has been acting out! and is driving me nuts! i don't know if it's just routine teenager stuff, or if its his disorder.

jencrawford jencrawford
22-25, F
2 Responses Feb 22, 2010

I have a fifteen year old I think is bipolar at times with his irrational behavior. It's a rough age to decipher and an even rougher one for someone who's bipolar. <br />
You are one of those rare moms gifted with great patience. I wish you the best.

Well, it could be a bit of both. Is he being followed regularly by a doctor or a psychiatrist? If so, they should be able to provide you with some answers.<br />
As for you, dear lady, my hat is of to you! You have taken on an awesome responsibility. You are providing your young brother with a loving home and the stability he needs to flourish. For that you have my admiration!<br />
Hugs,<br />
Jo