First Letter :)

His  family and I got his first letter today. Now that I have his address I'm going to write him all of the time... No one is too good to have letters written to them. :D I'm excited when I get his first letter specially for me. 

I also found out his graduation date is September 24th. That's a lot sooner than I thought. His dad and mom are driving all three of us up there to go to his graduation. I'm so excited!!! Here's the down side. We only have like a day and a half with him. Don't they know that's teasing me. I almost cried when I was told he's going to A- school so soon.

That leaves me with lots of questions... 

We have been talking about getting married, but I've been reading a lot about it and when the best time to do it is, because I've heard there is paperwork. Also, when's the best time, I mean other than the obvious- like when we're ready- ??? After A-school, before? It's something we've talked about enough to have his mom introduce me to everyone as her future daughter- in- law :) But not enough to have talked to anyone really about it. What's the easiest way to go about this? Should I write him in his letters about it, or would it just stress him out?
daydreamer3310 daydreamer3310
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11 Responses Aug 7, 2010

It was just his formal letter, but there were 3 lines for them to write something. He left Aug.3rd... He's going to be mailing letters out on Sunday, but he also said that it will take abt 10days to until I might get it.

Are you excited? I know I am very, very ready to see him. I'm so very proud.

My boyfriend graduates the same day! :)

I will always believe that in the end it will be worth it. Kevin and mine's relationship is very weird. We decided to date while he was in the Navy. We had been friends for a very long time and I haven't seen him in 2 years. But every time we tried to date each other something happened. Then suddenly we were both single and I wasn't letting the Navy get in my way.<br />
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He keeps saying (which makes me cry) Babe if you find someone in Indiana that makes you happy just be honest with me. And I can't convince him that I can't find anyone else cause it's only him. He's my Mr. Right. <br />
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All of my friends tell me that Kevin and I are perfect for each other. And that we are meant to be. And for me not to panic about the little things. <br />
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But I will tell you now, and if 13 years passes by before we can live in the same state I'll tell you again... I'm not leaving him. He's the one. And sometimes when you find something this good you can't let it go. And I'm not letting him go. I love him too much, he means too much to me. <br />
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And in 19 days I am in his arms... and maybe I'll stop panicking them cause I can hear him whisper I love you in my ear and not have it be a phone >_<

I'm scared because it seems like nothing is in our hands...<br />
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But do you think it's worth it? Being with Kevin, even though this faces you?

Kevin and I have been talking a lot about this. And why I am crying cause I don't see it happening.

we have 1 1/2 days together... it not really how i imagined things would be, but it only matters the person i marry.i wish he and i talked about this more.

I've looked into this, in regards to my previous post. You would need to marry him before he gets his deployment paperwork, because if you marry him after he gets his duty then the Navy does not have to let you move in. Especially if he's below a certain rank. If you marry say right out of graduation, and before A school then it would be okay. <br />
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Just google it and you'll find it.

I've always promise myself that i wouldn't be with a military guy... I guess I have to break that because everything right is pointing to him. I completely agree with you.

Best thing you can do is ask if you should set a date. I would think thats the most impotent thing, yer? Then, once that is done, maybe get his mother to help organize everything? I think what you should do is put love BEFORE paper work. :)