I Love My Sailor And Killed My Devil

No, I am not crazy. It just so happens that I killed my own personal devil (metaphorically). It feels so good!!!

John, an old highschool friend, called and woke me up at 6am this morning on a Monday!!! Really, that's how one starts a conversation. He started telling me how special I am, how much he loves me, and how much he wanted me to do sexual things with him..just once atleast...

Before anyone thinks "Oh, he doesn't know you're not single." John has met my significant other (Kyle) several times, knowing we were together.

I got really sad..then insulted. How can he say these things to me, knowing I am with somone( doesn't matter the distance)??? How can a friend do this? It's unfair! I kept telling him I wasn't his, but he kept asking me to touch him and do things with him. He kept telling me there's no harm in looking. He didn't understand, so I had to reverse it..in away. I just feel sorry for him and what situation he's in, but that doesn't change the fact that this was TOTALLY INAPPRORIATE to ever ask anyone!

I asked him if he has ever loved someone so much that he would do anything and everything for them no matter what the consequences. He said yes. I told him someone found me at my worse and loved me despite all of the bad and he has gone above and beyond for me,and that is real love.

He finally replied and said that he loves his GIRLFRIEND like that. o.O
So I asked him," How can you love her and do this to her?"
He hung up.

***Stay strong and firm, and they will realize who you are. Most importantly, you will know who you are.**

daydreamer3310 daydreamer3310
2 Responses Aug 9, 2010

Thank you :)

I'm so sorry :-(<br />
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Yes it was very inappropriate!!! <br />
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Shortly after Kevin and I started dating something similar happened to me. My best friend in the whole wide world (not any more) and I had a fight and he said something inappropriate. I had mentioned I was counting down the days to see Kevin and he was all get a sitter for your kids and I'll satisfy you. I got disgusted and walked away. He followed, I yelled and we went our separate ways. This started a texting argument, to where I said leave me alone. I didn't go home cause he had a key to my apartment (he let my dog out when I worked late). Well I went to my other best friend's house (girl since 6th grade) and our kids played. HE texted her to see if I was there, she was like yeah (I was away at the time) she told me when I arrived. I texted I would call the police. Well he didn't care and showed up and stayed outside until someone forced him to leave.<br />
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I was sadly disappointed, and lost a good friend because of this. All because people can't watch what they say.<br />
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Kevin was so dear and said forgive him. He's your best friend. But I can't. I mean how can someone approach a girlfriend who is waiting and be like "baby have me." It's like come on!!<br />
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I have so many friend's in the military (different branches) and they all said there is a silent code that says a soldier doesn't touch another soldier's girl (sure some break it but ya know). Well why can't all guys have that code... DON'T TOUCH ANOTHER GUY'S GIRL.<br />
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But yeah I would delete him from your life.<br />
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Hugs I'm here for you girl!