My Sailor Gave Me And Sti...

We've been together for two and a half years and hes currently stationed on a ship across the country. Ive always thought of our relationship as great we have wonderful communication and trust well atleast i thought so. Recently he came home for the holidays and of course we made love everyday he was here except 2 and on christmas eve i started to bleed and my period was late so automaticlly i thought i was pregnant. So i went to the doc they took blood and urine when the doc came in with the news i thought i heard wrong he said your not pregnant but you have chlamydia. My heart shatterd that instant so i went home and called him and told him and instead of him blowing up as soomeone would when there spouse tells them they have an sti knowing there the only one theyve been with and yet he was oddly calm hes the only person ive ever had sex with and he told me that i was the only one he's ever had unprotected sex with yet im burning so to speak then come to find out he doesnt have it. I Love him soooo much but im so confused as to what i should do someone please give me an honest opinion
Tarae Tarae
18-21, F
1 Response Jan 11, 2013

I am sorry to say but it is clear he gave you the STI if you have not slept with. He can remain calm because he does not want to lose you and will play it cool to make you feel better. He is in the navy they know how to remain calm and keep straight faces. Plus as you said why would he not be mad at you or worried for himself ? I am so sorry you have to go through this. Unfaithfulness is a terrible thing to go through. If you love him and want to work it out couples do come out on the other side . But you have to look deep within yourself to ask if you could really have a relationship with him now?