I Need Your Help.yes You.

Yeah it's really testing..But I need to be strong.We just met online and not yet seeing each other personally.That's the hardest thing there..But I will not give up.thank you.

Never give up.

However, there is a reason we have so many failures in relations ship is distant and stress.

you have no idea the number of time i tried to call my wife before a fight in siagon
and woke up with this red hair on my chest she did not have to say a think i knew who she was

we taled many times about why she did not go to school and all she said was when we were both home she would tell me all about it
then she said she now understood the stress i talked about
but she lost her life the day after i was shoot down in 1967

Awwww so you were shoot?in the battle?why did she died?Sorry to hear that..It's very sad..You don't have a child?why did you lost your communication before you fought in siagon?

Thank you so much for your advice..It's really helping me..I will do what you have told me.Thank you for sharing your experience and for taking the time reading my story.I just feel so down because I can't talk to anyone here because they will not understand my situation..But thanks to you because you do understand me.

My navy is 25 and I'm just 18 but my parents know about him and really likes him specially my dad..They want to see him and also feel sad if were not talking but I must be used to it that we cannot talk everyday anymore ;( All I can do is make him feel better,faithfully wait for him,trust him and don't doubt that he has somebody else.I will give him space now..I will not message him instead I will wait for him to message me..We just met online and not yet seeing each other personally that's why I'm like this but I have to adjust.I have to be strong for us to be together at the end..

If it helps my sailor didnt wish me a Happy Birthday yesterday.Yes it hurt and I was mad but I can't make judgement until he tells me the reason.I mean anything could of happened.His was taken away or he was busy or was punished you have no idea why he didn't bother to wish me a happy birthday but I can't let my friends beat him down for it because his situation is completely uncontrollable.Like my brother said he's government property now he isn't a citizen like me.He can't even be allowed to make his own decisions at times.Just don't get worked up about things because he's in military.

hey girl HAPPY BIRTHDAY!For sure your sailor wants to greet you but maybe he coudn't find time..yeah your brother is right..he is government's property..We are okay now :) were happy at our courting stage and getting to know each other :) He became sweet!And eventhough he's really busy at work,he finds time to message me :) he always reply on my messages now even if he's busy..He said everyday,he's feelings for me is getting deeper and deeper :)

Thank you! and I am glad things are working out for you.I have come to realize that I am now worrying about myself.In the beginning I was too involved with his job and life rather then mine.This is his career path he chose not mine and I had to remember that I have one too.Right now I am really focusing on school and my life.I don't get worked anymore about talking to him everyday.He started school and its kicking his butt pretty hard.I just send him a positive message and that's all.I feel that us girls tend to get to involved in their men's career and that's why we get upset or mad over silly things because we worry about them so much that we forget about ourselves and our happieness.All in all live YOUR life do things you wouldn't do, take chances and have fun !because remember he's out there living his dream and you should too!

Wow!It all sounds good! :) You made me realized many things..Thank you so much for that..Your definitely right! :) So how are you now with your navy?where is he?

He is in Pensacola Fl at the moment in Rescue Swimmer School.It's hard right now for him because I can't always help with advice.He's different now not very emotional in our conversations he seems like he's busy or tired all the time( but that's what I have to accept) Hopefully in the fleet he''ll be himself again( that won't be until a year from now).It seems he can't relax or acts like a robot.It sucks because his job and schooling are stressful on him.He doesn't come to me anymore.I am not sure if I am the only person who goes through this but I believe it's just his school that's causing him to lock his emotions up even with me.He doesn't even talk to many people either but that's the military for you lol.I always remind him that I am here. It took me a long to accept who he had become.I wanted the old person back but it wasn't easy knowing that was never going to happen.I am taking it day by day and learning how to adjust to a long distance relationship.But he needs me more then anything even if he doesn't think so lol.As of right now I am ok and will be ok as long as I keep my head up high and stay positive.

I need your advice..Kindly read my latest story.

let me take a look :)

why?

Oh hi!!I'm fine now :)

ooooh ok the last I knew he told you he was too busy for you.... things worked out ??

yeah things work out and were okay now :)

growing up for the first time away from home?why did you say that?I like you but I don't like how you act my life doesn't revolve around you I don't always have time to talk to you so if you can't handle that then quit now.He told me this ;(

my guess it is his first time away from home not you first time around new friends
i am sorry i have seen it many time over the years

I am not sure if it is his first time away from home..He is 25 now and serving the navy for 3 years I think?He is visiting his family every christmas vacation.Do you think it will work?

Hey :) were okay now :) He message me now and said that he's just so busy working and he still loves me nothing to freak out and I'm still the one :) Even if I think crazy hihi :) thank you!

Glad to hear it !! Would you add me as a friend though ? I'd like to keep in touch to see how things progress :)

okay :) thank you :)