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In Love With a Sailor

my story i think has just begun.

i met my sweet loving boyfriend awhile before he was to leave for bootcamp. unfortunatly we only got to hang out a few times like we went on our first date to a movie,and did bowling and that kinda stuff.

 

then his friends threw him a going away party which i just had to go. i needed to see him again before he left. :)

we had a lot of fun that night. a few drinks were involved. but we didnt do anything sexual. not that it mattered to me if we did. i was just happy to be able to kiss him.  which we did alot of.

after the party my friends and i left and went home. he called me a little while latter and we talked for at least 3 hours or so. it was sweet.:) he even called me before he left for bootcamp and told me that he couldnt stop thinking about me and hell miss me. i was very excited.

chris is very diffrent from the guys i was used to. he was a true gentelman.opened doors and called me darling and paid for dates.even though i tried to insist on paying for myself. lol hed never let me.

anyway it drove me crazy not hearing from him for so long.after he left. but i started geting his letters.oh i was so estatic.ive saved them all too. every now and then hed get to call me. those calls were so special. i would feel terrible if i missed it. i felt special that he was thinking about me enough to call and see how i was . and to say he misses me. he even called me on my birthday. that made me cry. a good cry though.

 

one day i wrote him a letter telling him how i felt about him. i told him very forwardly, i love you. and i would love to be with you and do the long distance relationship. at first i think he was worried about the distance. but im glad he decided yes. i got a letter saying how he thinks im such a wonderful sweethearted girl and how hes glad to call me his girlfriend now. that just touched my heart.

 

now we are together and very much in love.i got to recently go visit him where hes in school. and see where he gets to go everyday. it was very emotional weekend for me. i cried when i saw him and cried having to leave him. he told me not to be sad because i will be seeing him again soon. not soonenough.

hes told me that he wants me to come live with him wherever he is stationed. which i told him i would love to just be able to wake up next to him and give him kisses all the time. :) he likes that as well. who knows what will happen next... well just have towait and see.

 

all i know is that i love and miss him like crazy. i miss his arms being around me. and his sweet kisses.and his smell. and him saying i love u in person.

asailorsgirl25 asailorsgirl25 22-25, F 21 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS ARE ALWAYS HARD.....MY HUSBAND NOT IN ARMY BUT WE ARE FAR AWAY FROM EACH OTHER NOW, I'M IN VN AND HE IS IN THE US NOW, DONT KNOW HOW LONG IT TAKES UNTIL WE CAN SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN OR WE MIGHT DIVORCE CUZ HE CAN NOT MAKE ENOUGH MONEY TO TAKE CARE OF OUR ISSUES...AND SEEMS LIKE HE IS GOING TO JOIN ARMY, I DONT KNOW, HE SAID THAT IT MIGHT BE THE ONLY WAY TO BRING ME TO THE US BUT HOW CAN I COME THERE AND HE IS NOT THERE WITH ME???? IM REALLY DEPRESSED AND FRUSTRATED NOW

Really a lovely story, so touching! Distance is a hardship but it's just like with a fire and a wind you know. Wind blows out a small fire and fans a big one. I see your fire is a big one so there's no reason to worry) I wish you stay strong and keep that flame for many sweet years of togetherness!

I love this story! it's so cute and reminds me a lot of my story with my sailor :)

I love your story. It is very much the same situation with me and my boyfriend. That first time he calls you his girlfriend and asks you if you would be willing to move with him when he finds out where he is going to be stationed is so special and is a feeling you will never forget! I am so glad you found someone like him. Many people search for the love that we have encountered (you know that true once in a lifetime love) and never find it! Congratulations :)

you see ... all these wonderful family and friends of the U.S millatary !!! i have more than ten family members in the millatary and i salute and bow to them in honor to be able to be protected by such wonderful men and women ! all BOW TO THE U.S MILLATARY IN honor !!! i miss my great uncle he is in the coast guard but he nearly got shot ..... he is leaving this monday to go back to work .... GOD BLESS THE MILLATARY OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA!!

this is sooo very much simular to my story! i feel for ya girl bc im going through the exact same thing!!! it gives me hope to know im not the only one out there thats crazy in love with someone who just left for basic. i havent recieved any letters yet....i got a phone call that i missed!!!!! he left me a message that was like 4 seconds long and it just said 'hey babe, just wnted to tel you i made it here safe, love you" i hated myself for missing that phone call!!!!!!!! im practically stalking the mail lady everyday....lol i finally told her why i was at the mailbox and what i was waiting on. at night i sleep in his tshirt and it still smells like him! i think thats the only thing that helps me right now when im breaking down inside. ive already wrote him about 4 letters...dont know when i can send them but i have numbered them so he knows which one to open first. sometimes i feel like im gonna go crazy!!!! but other times i feel lucky and proud to be his girlfriend. i know he loves me soo much. if you need anyone to talk to to , im here. my boyfriend is wanting me to move to where ever he gets stationed at too. i want to do it but i have a 3yr old daughter and im afraid i wont beable to. even though her real dad is a piece of crap and doesnt even pay child suport half the time. i do not know what my future holds or what is going to happen, all i know is that we are deeply in love and want to spend the rest of our lives together. just stay strong and keep your head up! hope evertything works out for the best for you and your man. our men sound very much alike...the whole gentlemen and opening the car door and not letting us pay for anything..... :) its nice to actually have that for once huh? its almost like its too good to be true. i think i finally found my knight in shining armour! sounds like you did to!

I wish you the best of luck with your sailor!

Your story made me tear up...lol. My boyfriend is also in the navy. We have been together for almost 4 years but i'll never forget those "falling in love" moments.

Your story is so touching! My boyfriend always insists on paying for all my dates too even if I already have my money out :)<br />
Mine leaves overseas in a few months and I can't bear the thought of not being able to see him whenever I want to. I wrote him a letter telling him how much I cared for him too and that I would be willing to go anywhere or do anything just to be at his side :)

This story brought tears to my eyes. Wow. Amazing! Good luck :)

I am kind of in the same situation as you. Me and my boyfriendd have been dating for 10 months and he left 2 days ago and its already driving me crazy! I hope you two have the best of lives and that you will soon be able to live together. Good luck!

your story is so touching!! it realy bought me confort in my prepoation to my bfs diployment :)

AWWW! It's people like you that give me hope :) I'm so happy for you and I will confess this made me all teary eyed. I wish you the best of luck!!!

Aw, this sounds so romantic and sweet! I'm really happy for you! My boyfriend leaves April 11th and I'm super nervous ,we've been together for about a year and half now, so I know we can make it through this! The letters must be a savior! Is it hard not being super close, or not knowing his family very well while he's gone?

Me and my baby have been dating for 7 months, 8 months on the 19th of this month. I love him so very much and I miss him like crazy. He left on the 19th of last month. We have already talked about getting married one day. He wrote a letter to his family and half of it was for me but I can't wait until I get one in my mailbox, I check everyday. He always opens my car door for me, he does whatever he can to make me happy. I got very lucky. It seems like you did too. Good luck!!!

the same thing kinda happened to me. We barely met and the time we did spend together was amazing. Its like we clicked and I wouldn't leave him for anything. I know what I am getting into but I'm willing to do it for him

Your story is really sweet and I hope you guys make it. It is not easy being long distance especially in the military. My husband is in the NAVY and being married gives you more privleges but being a girlfriend may be a little bit more tough. Stick in there when the roads get rocky because you guys actually seem like you really love each other.

ur story is kinda like mine my bf just left for boot camp and im super sad how did u make it?

good luck

Thats sooo sweet young true love is the best thing to have....I only wish you the best hon...

THIS IS SUCH A BUEATIFUL STORY THAT IS GREAT U GOT SUCH A GREAT GUY I AM SO HAPPY FOR U AND GOOD LUCK ON EVERY THING FOR THE FUTURE!!<br />
GO NAVY!!!!