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I Am a Navy Girlfriend

What To Expect?

By: teenagejenny
Written on February 20th, 2013
Last night my navy was so mad about his work.He was pissed off because he was sent somewhere he doesn't know.He don't know where he is and only given a GPS.A place detector or locator.I don't know if he's back in the base now.I felt so sad and pity him ;( He's been working hard this past few weeks.5 days a week but 12 hours a day.Can you imagine that?!3 in the afternoon up to 3 am!!He told me last night this line "I can't wait to leave here I am ready to go home" I felt so pity to him ;( I just realized lately that his life is so hard there.I don't know if that is final because he's deployed in Japan and should stay there for 2 years.I don't know if they will allow him to go home.If he will be back in the states,he will see his old friends and probably his ex after 3 years of not being home for so long.He went home last December for 5 days but I think he's just with his family those times.If he really do like me and want to have a serious relationship with me,even if his ex and him see each other,it will be nothing to him right?He will pursue what we have started and still continue our communication.It's up to him but what is clear in me is I will wait for him to come here..
By: teenagejenny
Age: 18-21 , Female
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  • Lexie19
    Lexie19

    it's hard for them when they're away from family and friends and their usual culture. At times they get not only their work stresses but there are more limitations to what they can do when they're in Japan so it can get increasingly frustrating. That being said, obviously he and his ex didnt work for a reason. You have to have faith that he won't do anything otherwise you just simply won't have the trust it takes for a strong relationship. It's tough, trust me i know how hard it can be to trust someone. But you have to until given a reason not to trust him.

    Apr 10
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  • Import86
    Import86

    Some days are just better than others or some are just plain irritating but there is nothing you can really do except be there for him and let him vent. I think everyone had those days before, to just run away because it was such a bad day. Just keep encouraging him and tell him that the next day might be better than yesterday. If I were you I wouldn't worry about his ex, she is an ex for a reason and your his present.

    Feb 20
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  • teenagejenny
    teenagejenny

    Thank you :) Yes it's really a long long time before we see each other.He can't go home because he has a contract for 2 years in Japan.

    Feb 20
    1 like
  • applecleo
    applecleo

    My bf works all the time too. Not much complaining from his side. If he really likes you, he will not do anything that will spark any curiosity on your side. You need to maintain your communication because it is a LONG time before he's going there. If there's any way any of you can see each other sooner, that would be better :)

    Feb 20
    1 like