So worried his feelings are going to change for me in bootcamp. I'm so happy for him that he is accomplishing his dreams he had ever since a little kid but at the same time I wish we were able to be together. It's only been a couple days and I already have 6 letters ready to send out when I get his address. Idk maybe I'm just feeling really lonely right now. It sucks by being able to call him and tell him how school is going and the silly things that happened throughout the day. I miss my man more than anything right now :(
Junygirl Junygirl
18-21, F
4 Responses Aug 30, 2014

Baby doll, I promise it gets better! My boyfriend has been gone for almost 3 weeks and the first week was really hard on me. You just have to have faith in yourself and you have to have faith in him. I promise you he's not going to forget about you. I have yet to receive a letter from my boyfriend, and it really upset me at first, but I have commentary allies that what he is doing right now is honestly more important. If you ever need a boost I'm willing to talk to you through Facebook, Instagram, or any way you feel comfortable. You're not the only one going through this and to gather us girls are going to make it through it! ❤️

Come to realize* not commentary allies, hahah.

Thank you thank you thank you! I really needed that. It hasn't even been a week yet and I feel like I'm falling apart. Before he left we would ALWAYS be talking and texting and with eachother so to go from that to zero communication is hitting me hard. I'm so happy we can all relate to eachother and share stories! I'm sure you'll get a letter from him soon! My boyfriends dad was in the military and he said the only time you really get to write is at night and by that time you're so tired all you want to do is sleep so don't get upset if he's not writing you right now! He's probably just really tired! Thank you for everything girl

That's how it was with my boyfriend too! I have been dating him for seven months and literally every day I would see him! So I know what you mean by going from talking all the time to zero communication. And it's no problem at all! Remember that I'm always here if you need to talk, and I'm always here if you need to vent! :)

Thank you! Same goes for you :)

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You sound exactly like me! I have those exact same worries and wishes! At the beginning, I was super sad and worried, but once we were able to send mail, things got easier.

Thanks that what I'm hoping!

Just stay positive. When I saw my boyfriend after his graduation, I felt better than I ever have before. That first kiss was amazing. Just keep your head up and try to focus on the positive things for now. The military life stays isn't easy, but it's as easy as we allow it to be. We can make it through these tough times together.

Thank you so much! Just trying to see the light at the end of the tunnel right now

You're welcome. It's not going to be easy. If you do happen to find a way that is easier let me know.

I know it's going to be hard but we will go through this together

I know exactly how you feel. Just keep your head up and keep going. It'll all be worth it in the end <3 :)

Thank you so much! ☺️