The End

Well, this is it. We broke up. I found out through Facebook (of all places) that my man has been cheating on me and that it's been going on for some time now. I hadn't heard from him for days, not even Valentine's Day (even though he had the day off) and then I see lovey-dovey comments from him to some other girl. I have been completely invested in our relationship from day one and now this. I know that it's difficult being in the Navy and being apart from each other, but it doesn't excuse his actions.

It's weird to me... I haven't cried, not yet anyway. Maybe that's because of all the tears I'd already cried and now I have nothing left. What's bad is that I can't back out of the trip to Chicago to see him next month; the ticket and the hotel room are already paid for. He still wants to see me. And I'm not sure how I feel about that. But I'm going to go and enjoy myself. I'd been planning on going there to check out colleges and some theatres that I hope to work for.

Thanks everyone for your support and comfort through this emotional journey. I know I have grown through this experience and I'm better for it. You are all amazingly strong and I'm glad to have gotten to know you all. I wish you all the best.

With all my love

Stargazer07 Stargazer07
22-25, F
5 Responses Feb 17, 2010

Thanks, everyone! Love you all!

I'm sorry and I'm also sorry you had to find out through facebook. When you go there it'll be awkward yes but enjoy yourself regardless. Feel better

Omg im soo sorry to hear that , but you keep your head up high :) & look at it this way , things happen for a reason and maybe he wasnt that adequate enough for you. & i agree with akchristiangirl , go out there and enjoy yourself :) make the best of it :)

that is horrible! i'm sorry. my bfs friend got his gf pregnant while in the navy so they got married because at the time they both thought it was the best thing to do and then in december she found out he was cheating on her. i feel so bad for her. she is such a sweet person and then that had to happen.

Oh honey, I'm so sorry. Yes being in the Navy is hard and being aways is hard too. But that is NO excuse for cheating on your girlfriend. And to find out through Facebook of all places? I am soo sorry. Be careful going down there and stay strong. But I agree! If you've already spent the money on the hotel and everything then enjoy yourself! Make the best of this opportunity! I've heard there's some pretty good schools in Chicago and in that area along with some pretty awesome shopping. =) Stay strong sweetie! I'm here if you ever need to talk.