I just married my hero in December when he came home on R&R. Since he has been back to Afghanistan he has done what I affectly call the BI-POLAR flip outs on me. We Im and talk on the phone as much as we can. There are days that he is just a complete creep to me for no reason. He will even tell me that he isn't in the mood for the lovey dovey crap when I tell him I miss him and can't wait for him to get home during our chats on the computer, But then he'll find the time to call me and will tell me how much he loves me and misses and that he can't wait to come home!
He never did the Bi-polar thing to me before he came home on R&R, and we got married.
I am the only one that is experiencing this type of "behavior" ?I am so new to the whole deployment thing and what must be going through his head being over there.
I try to be patient and understanding, I couldn't imagine what he is going through over there and not knowing what is going on at home all the time. HOW DO I COPE? WHAT DO I DO?
He will be home in June which really isn't that far away. I know once he is home things will be way different, but what do I do for the next 4 1/2 months? any suggestions? Anybody else experiencing this with htier hubby?