Cheated On And Now Cheating

I've been with my husband for nearly 7 years and married for 2 1/2. Over the years he cheated on me numerous times and then one day about 3 years ago said he was done with all that and wanted to get married. I was dumb enough to believe that and we did get married. About a year later I found out he cheated on me again although I suspect there were others before that. I was devasted and new that things will never change for him. Once a cheater always a cheater.

Several months ago we were out in a bar and struck up a conversation with a man who we became friends with. Me more so than my husband. Well this man and I started texting everyday and talking about a lot of things including my messed up marriage and his recent breakup with a girlfriend and his previous marriage. After many weeks of talking we realized we were starting to have serious feelings for eachother. It has since turned into a full affair and we are in love with eachother. Now I don't know how to break the news to my husband or how to move on with my life. Since he has cheated on me numerous times I don't feel regret or remorse but I know he will be devasted as I believe he has serious psychological isses. He's never stayed in counseling long enough to get to the heart of his issues. Any sugestions on how to handle the situation?
inanaffair inanaffair
41-45
Dec 6, 2012