Hi, my name is Silly Fool and I am a new Experience Project member.
I came across this site a few days ago when I was surfing the internet looking for somebody else in the same shoes I was in. Two months ago I was engaged and going to get married. One month ago I found out she was having an emotional affair (and a little bit of physical cheating. Two weeks ago after she broke it off with the other person, he came in our house and sexually assaulted her. It is a bit much to handle.
These events are how I came to be here, but they do not define who I am. They are at the forefront of my mind right now becaue I am still dealing with it all.
When not dealing with a S*** circus, I am somebody who likes a wide range of things. I am equally happy at a classical concert, or a rock concert. I am a big sports fan - particularly college sports, but I am also a big fan of live theater. I have a graduate degree, but from time to time watch professional wrestling (which I think is a great way to shut down all of my brain cells for a rest). I love travel and photography, but don't do either as much as I should.
I have a professional career some people envy (and others hate) but I don't like it.
I am very open minded and my basic rule in life is do whatever you want as long as you don't hurt anybody.
I am sometimes spiritual, sometimes agnostic. I am sometimes liberal, sometimes conservative.
I am an enigma.
I am 39 and still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up.
I am here to read people's experiences. To hear other points of view. To be anonymous and make anonymous friends.
There is safety in anonymity - we can be honest - we can be ourselves without fear.
Glad to meet you.