New Here...

Hi.  I am a new member at EP.  I was thinking this might be a good place for me to share.  I've been married for 15 years.  I found out 2 years ago that my husband molested my daughter.  DSS has taken my children and now they are in a foster home.  I lost my job in June.  Its been challenging dealing with DSS, the courts, family, no friends, and now looking for a job.  Most days I just feel like I want to pack a small bag and just leave.  Leave it all... I'm at a loss. 

brownbaglady brownbaglady
6 Responses Sep 17, 2009

wow I'm so sorry! But good things come to good people! If you ever need to talk or vent feel free to drop in. and i know how you feel about therapy! I had to go after i was molested by a older cousin and i never did trust them. i felt like they were always judgin me and were out to prove i was crazy lol and the funny thing is after i was done with my 2 years of therapy me and my therapist are friends

Oh trust me, I damn near tried to kill him with a bat.

Also have to divorce husband. I will also have to cut off several family and friends. Since my husbands family and my family are very close. Most still support him, see him, love him. They try to be in the middle and support us both. For DSS requirements, the children and I can not be in contact with anyone that will support him. Its just awful. At times I feel very lonely.

Wow, I'm surprised your not in jail for killing your husband. I would have if I had found that out.

I have to go to therapy - I hate therapy, I don't trust them. I've tried for years as I grew up in foster care.

I am sorry for your struggles...<br />
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What do you have to do to get your kids back, if you don't mind me asking?