Found this site quite by accident. I have been single for about 6 years and always seemed to find the wrong kind of guys. I found one that is so good to me and treats me like a queen. Nothing is too much trouble. After 2 months he said the "L" word and I nearly had a fit (quietly though). I just dont feel anything for this man. He doesnt make my knees go weak and I do not find him physically attractive at all. I have told him this, and I know I hurt him terribly, but I was honest and he suggested having a break at the moment.
Deep down I know he is a fabulous guy but I just cant fake feelings. What I am asking is...
At my age (late 40's) do you ever get the butterflies and weak knees or is it all just pretend. I gave it a little time to see if I grew to have feelings, but its just not happening. What is wrong with me.
He says I am everything he ever wanted, this makes me feel worse. Please help
What I am asking is should I stick it out, because at my age there arent too many nice men out there. And the ones I really like dont like me in that way. Should I just settle?