I`ve been married for 8 months and well my husband and I have sex maybe twice or thrice a month, is this normal - have any of you gone through this ?
We`ve been together on a somewhat off and on relationship for about 8 years and during that stage sex was great and frequent now the only time we have sex is when I initiate it and it doesn`t always work. I`ve tried to not initiate it and see what happens and well nothing happens.
I get a Goodbye peck when he is off to work but there only time there is a real kiss is when there is sex. There are no kisses at other times, no touching or huging.
We do come from a conservative upbringing etc so wouldn`t really have public displays of affection but this doesn`t even happen in the privacy of our own home.
I`ve brought it a twice so far and both times he said he would try harder but is this something that one actually has to try harder or even try about? Shouldn`t newly weds who are very much in love and together alone for the first time, want to be together.