I've been a pastor's wife for several years. I met my husband in college while he was a Theology major and we were married within one year. I didn't feel like I really knew what to expect as a pastor's wife so I went into it with zeal and a little nervousness. While there have been many wonderful experiences I am currently going through one of the loneliest periods of our marriage. We were recently moved to a new church and it is taking up so much of my husband's time that I feel he is more concerned (and consumed) with the members than he is with our marriage. I live far away from my parents and extended family and in a very culturally different city. I know my story sounds no different than a lot of other pastor's wives but I just needed to put my story in the pot as well and reach out for encouragement.