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Most women have said they believe most males have done at least a minor offense, like looking up a girl's dress, or having underage images. Of course, they also think these are not minor offenses. Another female member here has expressed a similar opinion about having thoughts of sex with an underage girl. She thinks that that too should be punished with termination.

What do you think?

Do you think thoughts and the offenses mentioned above deserve termination?

Well philosophicalNonsense I think anyone who harms a child in any way whether sexual or violently is sick in the ******* head! Even if they just think about it it is still sick and I think the majority would agree with me. To group pedophiles with Jews is also a pretty sick way of thinking and shows a great lack of intelligence on your part. How in the hell do you even make that connection!?



Are you a *********? Do you think of having sex with children or harming them in any way? How in the hell can you condone this behavior because it sure seems like that's what your doing!?



What kind of ********* isn't a child molester? Or if one only "thinks" of a child in a sexual way but doesn't act on it; they are still sick in the head and eventually they will act on it! HOW IS THAT O.K.!!??



THE LAW DEFINES A ********* AS SOMEONE WHO IS SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO YOUNG CHILDREN, A CHILD PREDATOR. I am speaking in terms of the law, not how your trying to define/condone it!



Sometimes Psychotherapy will help these people, but for most it doesn't. Someone who has already raped a child and killed them doesn't deserve to live plain and simple! THAT IS BEYOND HELP!



You saying they do and condoning their behavior makes you one really sick **** in my books!



If you really think Pedophiles are harmless and just another one of Gods creatures you need help! This kind of sick mind is nothing of God. It is pure Evil of the highest form! Trust me even God wants it wiped from the Earth!



To willingly destroy the purest form of innocence takes a very Evil mind/soul. Again I would certainly think the majority would agree with me here! UNLESS THEY ARE A CHILD RAPIST, KILLER, *********!



If you seriously think this is o.k. I urge you to get help before you do harm your child! I wonder what your wife would have to say about how you view Child Predators?

Frankly, while I agree with your sentiments on protecting your child, I find you to be crass and vulgar.



Allow me to explain what I mean.



You love your child, as you have stated innumerous times. You would do anything to protect your child, as you have also stated. I have to ask you, are you really willing to be a fascist? Because let's face it, your thinking is borderline Nazism only you want to kill pedophiles instead of Jews.



What is **********, answer me that question. What is it?



Etymologically speaking, meaning the origins of the word, it means a lover of children or a lover of feet, technically speaking.



Today, we consider it to be a word which means a person who is sexually attracted to little children, specifically pre-adolescent.



You keep saying you want to kill the 'pedophiles', but what about the pedophiles who aren't child molesters? What do you plan to do with the people who hold the thought, but reign themselves in from harming a child? Like the rest of this idiotic country you make no distinction because you SEE NO DISTINCTION.



Well I'm telling you that there is, and there are tons of pedophiles who live perfectly normal lives who hold the same morals as you do and yet still refrain from giving in to their desires and trying to have sex with children.



That is why I find your posting about 'mothers protecting their children' to be trash. It's stupid, idiotic, and just as hateful as Nazism to condemn a person for their THOUGHTS!



I am a father, and I love my son with all my heart. It would destroy me to see him harmed in such a way, and I cannot even contemplate how I would react in such a situation. But I know one thing here and now. I know that to kill a *********, or ANYONE!, for just their thoughts is just as gross a violation of their humanity as if they had done the violation of the child themselves. Your plan doesn't make you an avenger, it only makes you a murderer, and I for one having nothing but disdain and contempt for murderers or those who support them.

u sound so much like my mom i almost wanna cry- with all of this, i mean.

not just the "don't get between a mother and her child" speech.

Thanks. we seem to have a lot in common! :)

I agree with you about the family thing, but if it were a family member who did that to my child. they had better leave the country. My allegiance is to my child and only my child. I don't believe castration works either or therapy for that matter, you are right it wont change the person they are...never does.

I do understand your feelings on this unfortunately. It does feel like they get off lightly and live-out their sentence at the expense of innocent people and that hurts.

However I'm now going to put my feelings to one side and disagree with you because of some things. Bear with me..



Unfortunately what you talk about here would never work in reality simply because the majority of sexual abuse is coersively carried-out on the molestor's own family members. The abuser uses _emotional_ manipulation ("guilt trips" etc.) to commit the abuse.

It is already very, very difficult for a child (or even a now grown-up victim) to inform on their relative/abuser knowing that they will be incarcerated and lose their family etc.. Victims may feel terrible (however totally misplaced) guilt for "destroying our family and ruining their lives".

If the consequence of the victim informing is the certain death of their own family member, what chance is there of them asking for help? IMO, none.



There is also another point I have to bring up. Child abductors/molestors/rapists currently do not always murder their victims.

In my opinion, capital punishment for molestation/abduction is an incentive to murder.

What would the abductor have to lose by eliminating the primary witness and disposing of all of the physical evidence including the victim?



Oh and btw, I also disagree with castration and therapy, as it's not a cure for selfishness and a complete lack of empathy or compassion. The mind is still sexual anyway.. even if the drive is reduced somewhat, it wouldn't change the person they are.

sorry to hear that lunnas. I hope you have had help along the way to deal with the pain this selfish, cruel act must have caused you. I believe in nothing but the death penalty for pedophiles. Especially the repeaters, the ones who can't and don't want to be helped.

i feel the same way

i was a young when i was hurt as child . its a bad thing for a person to hurt a child

i am a protecter of children. i cant stand anyone that would abuse a child in any way ,and god help them if any one hurts any one in my family . i think when some one hurts a child like i was they need to be gassed , it seems like the ones that hurt children, the system bends over to help thier rights and the childs rights are nothing . the hurt child lives with the abuse every day and the perp gets off scott free . i know how the justic should be served . they choose to cause the child pain that cant be

washed off thier hearts .we have to change the laws.

I know, it can be difficult though. It bothers me how people have become. When I was a child the world was a much friendlier place. Seems evil is winning and that really bothers me. Hugs 2 you 2

SURE YOU ARE, YOU ARE JUST ANOTHER SCAIRD, LOST LONELY CHILD SEEKING ATTENTION EVEN IF YOU HAVE TO DO IT NEGATIVELY. YOU DO NOT FOOL ME. AS I "SEE' PEOPLE FOR WHAT THEY TRULY ARE. NO MATTER HOW FAKE THEY TRY TO COME OFF. SEEMS ALL YOU CHILDREN ARE LIKE THAT THESE DAYS. SORELY LACKING THE DISCIPLINE, LOVE AND GUIDANCE OF GOOD PARENTS.

I do not like children, will never have any and certainly would not care anyway. Cruelty will not offend me and I am not acting, I am a genuinely callous and cynical person. I do not consider my comments nasty, merely unemotional. And refrain from replying, I will not come back.

ghostinthefog; you don't have kids, until you have children you could never possibly understand the lenghts you will go to protect them and seek revenge on those that harm them. As for being an irrational thing to say; those other things, places don't apply here. If your new to EP I'd suggest you stick to the topic you are commenting on people can be pretty cruel here. So don't go trying to act all tough and scary. It doesn't work on EP. People couldn't care less. You will just become another joke. If you get too nasty with people you will be booted off EP. There are people here who don't put up with that kind of crap. So if that is all you came to EP for then go elsewhere you won't get satisfaction here!

I am only saying that it is quite an irrationnal thing to say. I do reckon my comment is a bit off topic however.

ghostinthefog: Don't know exactly what your trying to get at, frankly don't care either, but when I'm the Mother and anyone harms my child; NO THERE ISN"T!

There are far more dangerous places in fact

I pray you get your revenge! How have you been!? It's been awhile since we chatted! PM me if you like!