im a people pleaser who is afraid to speak her mind in case people dont like me or it. especially my mom, i always need her approval. i'm a grown adult with children, and i can't get over worrying about what other people think, i afraid i'm going to say the wrong thing and they wont like me. or they'll think im making a bad decision. it's none of their business but i cant help it. i need to be able to do what i want and say what i want.