Saying 'no' Is So Hard...

I can't say 'no' to peoples' requests for help.. even if I do not like to do sometimes. 

it sometimes gives me a feeling that I am being too stupid. coz some people makes use of it everytime!

they think as if "break the glass in case of emergency". nd they just brake it..!...

I will get rid of this soon..

I'm trying to...

ColorMyWorld ColorMyWorld
18-21, F
2 Responses Apr 4, 2007

my need to please is a result not being liked. this has lowered my confidence. i think a method of other coming this is not think that anyone is better than you. Also remember that these people are capable of doing it themselves. Also people who take advantage of your kindness and not worth pleasing

Best of luck to you with overcoming this people-pleasing perfectionism. I, too, struggle with this--a lot. So much so that I've gotten to the point that now, I shut myself in at home and only go out when necessary... I find I'm a lot less stressed out and stretched out than I used to be. :)