Greetings and Welcome.


  Hello my name Mica and I have two wives. My first wife Linda and I have been together for 18 years. My second wife Jaime and I have been together for just over 5 years.  We have 7 children between the 3 of us. I have 4 with Linda, and 3 with Jaime.  My first wife could have no more children after our fourth child was born.

  We prayed to our Heavenly Father and after a time of trial he brought Jaime into our lives. We started dating Jaime and both fell in love with her, and she with us. Jaime was a breath of fresh air into our lives at a moment when we needed it. After about 5 months we were sealed into marriage. We were living in Rolla, Missouri. I had just been discharged from the local army base, Ft. Leonard Wood. My wives and I decided to stay where we had lived for many years. About two years into the marriage with my second wife, some folks we thought were friends revealed who we were.

  We struggled with all the bullshit that the LDS people put us through. They even threatened to excommunicate my first wife who had been raised in their Church. Her mother pleaded with them and told them that neither of our marriages were arranged and we were all in the relationship consentually. This caused a big uproar, they even had our names in the newspaper declaring us as polygamists. I lost a whole bunch of contracts with my business. This started to become a very large headache. I decided to take our family on a pilgrimage to the Hill of Cumorah, just outside of Palmyra, N.Y.

  It was a thought provoking experiance, we decided to start a new life in New York State. We settled in the Riverside section of Buffalo, N.Y. We bought a house and settled in. The children adjusted well to the new inviroment and all has been well since. We have few friends that know of who we are. The ones that do know have been sworn to secerecy.



MicaAlMaren MicaAlMaren
41-45, M
1 Response Mar 8, 2010

Hi. My husband also have second wife. My husband and I have been married for 19 years and he has been married to wife #2 for nearly two years. We share one home and the three of us love each other deeply. We fortunately do not have to hide our marriage as it is totally legal in our country. I hope you guys will be able to live in peace hence forth.<br />
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Regards<br />
poly wife