First Letter!!!

When I saw the envelope I couldn't wait to open my first letter from my boyfriend Jaret! As I read through it I noticed how many times he said he isn't sure that he made the right decision and how he misses me and loves me so much, I started to cry know that I can't do anything to make him feel better. In the letter he said at leat 5 times that he doesn't think he made the right choice and that his life here with me was perfect and he doesn't know why he left. He wants me to move with him after basic. It hurts my heart to know that my love is regretting his decision. My spirits are low today.
SamPat94 SamPat94
18-21, F
3 Responses Nov 27, 2012

Just try to keep him positive in the letters you write him and and when he calls, and just remind him how much you love him and are proud of him.

I am sure to keep our conversations positive always! I want to help make this as easy as I can for him!

Stay strong & push him to keep going. In the end,you two can always choose whether or not to live together & start your lives as one,but for now,YOU are his biggest care &support. Let him know that he is stronger than he thinks he is,not to sound wierd,but not everyone has the balls to enlist & serve our country. He is doing a great thing even though he is doubtful about it now. Just be sure to cheer him up & let him know you take pride in him for being this brave. Things will get better as time progresses,I promise
Please keep in touch!

Thank you do much I seriously need to here everything you had to say I just miss him so much and want everything to be okay.

there's this quote I saw today... "being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." - Lao Tzu ... let him know that he has both strength and courage and to keep fighting. :] hope you feel better!

Thank you that is really helpful! I like that quote too! :)

I like it too :] I think it's quite fitting for our situation!