Its something I have noticed and has been mentioned a few times in passing. There has been this whole 'come join my pack'. Do you not realize that this is where a lot of you screw up? The fact you will accept anyone and anything? I'm for being open minded but to me it's just irresponsible. As is also the fact of anyone under 20 being alpha. I would rather have my small pack of tried and true actual wolves than a big pack of children who may or may not be real. It's reduces drama and problems. Im very selective and picky about who comes in and they meet with the current members. Does it sound elitist? Yes. But I've also been head of my pack for over five years with no problems or conflict and the same members I started with. Something to think about.