Written on November 12th, 2011
I am just now entering into a divorce after 26 years of marriage. I am codependent and have made many unhealthy decisions as a result. It is funny how the pendulum swings where you know your partner has a drinking problem - you threaten divorce - they stop drinking and you start. Who is the unhealthy one now? Years of emotional abuse and anger and verbal attacks on the children. I am just now realizing my issues and unhappiness at 50!! Why did it take so long to wake up? So many regrets but the rest of my life to get healthy and enter into another relationship that offers peace and consistency. I am done with drama and trying to pick up everyones pieces!! I hope that this website can help me on my path to healthiness!!!!