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Ten Tips On How To Date A Scorpio Male

These rules may seem a little standard for most men, but they are EXTRA important for dealing with a Scorpio.

1. Be Prepared. Read everything you can on Scorpios, there is a good chance that you have never met anyone like him before. (I got this a little to late).

2. Be Gentle. We all know that the male ego is fragile, but they are extra sensitive. Make sure they REALLY understand that you respect their opinion and you are not trying to change his values. No matter how much you may really want to.

3. Show Your Loyalty. He is going to give you "trust tests". Let him know that you have nothing to hide. If there is any other zodiac sign that might do a complete background check on you it's a Scorpio. Do not be surprised if he interviews friends, family, coworkers, and ex-boyfriends to find out about you.. I would not engage any male in any form of friendly conversation in his presence they are jealous and possessive. But remember he is going to keep his secrets.

4. Set Boundaries. This is tricky because they are always suspicious and you don't want them to think that you are hiding something. But you have to let them know what you will and won't accept and stick to your guns. If he is intent on violating those boundaries, you had better find out why and do not accept some non-chalant answer either like " I just wanted to know" trust me, there is a method to his madness.

5. Praise. Do this every time you catch him doing something even remotely pleasing to you or any small accomplishments that he has.

6. No Teasing. This includes making general comments that you notice about his habits, personality, and values. He may do it you, but do not expect to have that same privilege back. Do not tease him in a playful manner either because I guarantee at somepoint it will be misconstrued. This leads to number 7.....

7. Negative Comments. If they make to many negative comments about you, then run do not walk away from this relationship. Scorpios either like you or they don't.

8. Communication. Even when speaking in general conversation, make sure they understand this is not personal about you or him. You may even want to start the conversation that way, "This has nothing to do with you or me......".---see number 2. Plus, they think they are psychic and understand everybody's motivation, so if they guess your motivation wrong, let them know, but remember to be gentle. They hate to be disgareed with. Since they are so emotional expect their opinions to change often.

9. Withhold Sex. The sex with a Scorpio is great. I mean really great. I would really hold off on this until you know if number 7 has been fulfilled or if you are the type of person to get emotionally attached after sex (which most women are) I would just say no. Plus, they have a reputation for being easy to sleep with and you want the commitment.

10. Let Him Lead. They don't like to be controlled by anyone especially a female. Feminine tricks do not work. Tell them straight what you want and why. They play by their own set of rules, so let them make up their own mind.

Bonus....They have a temper like no other. Be careful what you reveal and say to them because it can be turned around and used against you.No matter how mad you get hold your composure and your ground.

If you succeed here is your prize.....
A Scorpio is extremely loyal and will go to the length of laying down his life for his loved ones.If you are willing to deal with a Scorpio man, then you will have a loyal friend. If you are the right type of woman, then you can keep a Scorpio man in a relationship and have one of the most intense loves ever and do not forget the amazing sex. They are very protective. They will do all of the little things in the relationship that they care.

taytriscar taytriscar 36-40, F 15 Responses Apr 9, 2012

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All of my relations have been with Scorpio men. As a Aquarius with a Scorpio rising its is always exciting and electric, and completely frustrating. I am currently in a relationship with one that is younger than I am by almost 12 years. Although he is younger is is by far more tuned in, but his quiet times and shutdowns are intense. He does not like me to give advice even if he asks for it. I'd really like to make this one work. He has been begging me to marry Him for months and when I finally agreed he panicked, ha! But he is by far the most intelligent man I have been with (as well as manipulative) yes it is like a drug, but I'm not prepared to let this one go. Advice ??? .

I am a Capricorn and had numerous scorpio dates. I have intense relationships with them but I am always a step ahead,I like playing with their minds and when they catch me and try to sting I crush them with my stubborn foot. Capricorn is the only sign that can deal with a scorpio. I can be really cold with them and for some reason that makes them fall harder for me.to me it's all a game,Capricorn can flip from being in love today to being in hate. I still love scorpio as they entertain me and are so funny. They believe they are psychic and all,Capricorn plays on it,loves it and no wonder they could make a great match..

They do love to play games it's true. They are defiantly physic. But when they transcend from Scorpio to Phoenix it's game over. I m lucky enough to have Scorpio as my rising. I too love the way one has to 'stay a step ahead' but I'm now with one in the midst of his transcendence, it's amazing to watch. And the one thing my guy likes is my honesty. However he feels the need to pic and choose his. I can see it when he fluxes from Scorpio to phenix. And it's the phenix that loves Aquarius' need for justice, independence and freedom. I think this is exactly where I need to be.

Hey, I'm a scorpio man, i used to ridicule these horoscopes ****. But, I find the traits of a scorpio man coming to life in mine. Being self-centered is one weakness we have. But i have overcome this. Just tell yourself, not everything is always about you! The world does not revolve around you. Stop being too much of an introvert, open up sometimes. Sometimes, I feel sorry for my wife who has the patience to ride my mood, my interests. So in return, I give her autonomy to do what she wants (as i do not want to be controlled either).At times, i see myself too controlling, i loosen up. Sometimes, you have to in order to have a happy life. Not everything is about control. A lot of things happen beyond your control.

I am a 21 year old AQUARIOUS and I am dating a 28 year old SCORPIO. We met in Aug of 2011, at a family beach trip, my cousin brought his neighbor (my SCORPIO) and we automatically fell for each other. It was electric, like magnets... we talked for about a year and when I transferred colleges to be close to my father (who developed cancer) I began to date my scorpio. It started out where he would drive the 2 hrs to come see me, show me a fun time, take me to dinner, be in me home and then drive home. He never pressured me for sex but I pressured him, I wanted it bad because of how electric our relationship was. Not three months in and he was visiting so often I started to spend the night and he made it difficult for me to leave his house (very convincing in what made sense). He convinced me that he could drive me to my classes if I stayed the night and eventually I stayed the night so often it "made sense" to just move in. So I did. And like dominos I lost people in my life very fast because of reasons stated already lol very jealous and possessive. My scorpio is very manipulative. He convinced me all my friends were being rude not because I was blowing them off for ti me with him but bc they were jealous and "disgusting people." Then once I was down to one friend (one whom still sticks with me despite how much hell my scorpio puts her through...) I started to drift from my family. He is so egocentric in thoughts my mother is a crazy who does drugs (bc he thinks he knows everything and knows the method to everything even tho he couldn't be further from the truth... my dad "looks at me like im a piece of meat" according tk my scorpio which is so wrong on so many levels bc it is the FURTHEST from the truth. But he has developed this theory and is sticking to it. My scorpio lives three houses down from his parents and thought mh only friend should be his mom and his sister... until I needed to vent about him and now he doesn't think I should talk to anyone. He has limited my job opportunities and school bc he doesn't want me driving far away bc it is our of his control. Im in love but I hate loving a scorpio... lol and if anyone knows an aquarious I am FAR to sensitive to handle him sometimes.
So here's a note: dont do it. Lol I love him and wouldnt trade for the world but it is WAY too much work.. lots of give not a lot of take. I take anyways but it ends in argument. Be worry of a scorpio lol

hey that sounds so delicious. I love being possessed.

you are not worthy of his attentions and affections. And you claim far too much importance on what others think, including your friends and family.
if you love him, be with him.

anyway i am an aquarius woman and married a scorpio. yes he is possessive but that's the only way i wanna be loved.

I love my Scorpio man, but he is such a pain in the butt sometimes. I've been on and off with him for 5 years. You have to know and understand the true meaning of unconditional love because these men live life on their own term. You cannot change them. You will never figure them out. You need loads of patience. You have to learn how to deal with their silence and Scorpio disappearing acts while they brood and try to process their own complicated emotions. You have to get used to the feeling of being possessed or owned. It's helps to be in touch with your own intuition and be able to anticipate his needs. They don't like questions, they don't like talking about their feelings, and they don't like giving you straight answers. Mine is the most intense man I've ever met and I can feel the full force of that intensity in bed with him. And that's what keeps all of us girls hooked. That deep intense love making where you don't have to tell them what to do to your body because they intuitively know. Mine is psychic. However, I think the majority of them are. They are incredibly high maintenance, but the path of the Scorpio is THE hardest path to walk so have some sympathy for them. They appear calm on the surface, but these men are highly emotional and experience life at a deep deep level. They are moody and they feel everything. That's challenging in a world where men are taught to be tough and emotionless at a young age. It's one of the toughest relationships I've been in, but I've grown leaps and bounds because of him. Soulmate Scorpio love is not for the faint of heart. If you are truly serious about settling down with a scorpio find an evolved one(an eagle or phoenix). It's worth it in the end. . .

i need you advice i am dating a scorpio man since 9 years and i am facing many problems i don't know how to deal with him, when he loves me he loves me fully and when he is angry he doesnt even care about me weather i am ill, facing a problematic phase, he cant control his anger.
and in good times i feel like everything is going in a smooth way, he never let me know if my behaviour or any thing distrubs him or hurts him he keeps on stacking those little mistakes of mine and keeps them in mind and brust like a volcano after few months, and when he is angry he sounds like i am the biggest enemy of his life, everytime this happens i have to struggle a lot to get him back, and it takes 2-3 weeks to settle him down i am so distrubed i dont know how to deal with him i dont want to loose him ...please suggest me somethings

Very true!

My husband is a Scorpio and if I had to do it all over, I would not ever pick a Scorpio man. They think sex is romance. They're completely clueless about other people's feelings. It's all about them. UGH!! They feel that opposites are a challenge and won't ever let you go no matter what. Extremely possessive. I'm stuck! They are very hard to mingle with others, especially other men if they think the man is interested in their mate. They are like lions protecting their cubs. They desire all your attention, but only if someone else is getting your attention. They are entirely too much work!

So on the money!

You are so right. I've been dating one of those crazies for a little over a year. Its boiling down to where I can't take anymore of the psycho babble logic he comes up with.

I have heard and red about women who just go crazy over the Scorpio male. I have met many, but loved only one. The others were great friends. I think too many people get caught up in the sexual-hype of Scorpio's when in truth the Venus or Mars in Scorpio is where the intensity lives. Otherwise you've got Sun or Moon in Scorpio which has far less to do with sex or sexuality. By the way, a Rising Sign Scorpio of the Pluto-Scorpio decan puts any Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars in Scorpio not in the Pluto-Scorpio decan into total runner's mode. A Scorpio is not a Scorpio is not a....okay?

This is so helpful because I'm a Taurus so we're opposites but opposites attract. I don't know if he likes me or is interested but I hope he is. We haven't known each other for long but . . . I REALLY REALLY think that I like him!

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Interesting... :)
Love to read this.. I am dealing with one know (not in a romantic way).
At least it gives me a clue when is the right time to run away..

Yes l am involved with a scorpio man, he is very jealous, and so true, they either love or hate you,, if this man loves you you can never be just friends... It's all or nothing,,,he can't handle the only friends part...he likes to be in control, but l will tell you a little secret... My scorpio loves me with all his heart..when we are together, the world disappears... We live in our own world, behind closed doors...ther is no other... We are ONE and we are both on the same page, love Harley's,Peterbilt ,camping,travelling,and our log cabin in the mountains..

Sounds wonderful and it is nice to hear that someone is happy and in love!!!

I am a capricorn female and here's my story.

Back during the summer of 2011 I was going thru a very terible time with my spouse ( now my- ex-spouse yahoo). I felt unloved, undeserving, unappreciative, and unwanted. I was miserable in my house, my life, my love I felt was all like BEING IN A HOLOCAUST CAMP about to be tortured for the umpteenth time lol.

Now most evenings and all day on the weekend I would go to the clubhouse pool, to relax and enjoy myself, by myself. But this particular day a tall, disntinguished man sat at the pool listening to my convo as I talked on my cell.

He complimented me, told me how beautiful I was and made me feel desirable. We would meet during June and July almost daily at the pool. I let my guard down with him and soon I found myself liking him.

His swag was good and you guessed it.............he was a Scorpio male.

Suddenly the meetings we had was turning lusty, steamy and I was galvanting around the city finding quiet spots to indulge with him. His finesse was awesome, but the reality soon set in and I found out some disturbing things about him that quickly drove over the edge and I had to somehow remove myself before it was toooooooooo late and I would fall overboard hard and loose control.

This scorpio was gentle, loving, candid, funny and when we had sex it was TNT (explosive!)

The bomb soon went off and I found out his world was not my world and I needed to let go! I DID!

So I placed a crazy ad on CL one day after breaking up with my summer scorpio lover and got something more off the chain than you could imagine. I placed the ad 10/29 and the person who responded to me, responded on 10/30 ( his birthday date).

Yep, another scorpio. Now this scorpio has made me goooooooooooo CRAzY!

We met in November, and he seduced me like a scorpio man would almost off my feet. The sex was sooooooooooooooooooo raw, volatile, intense I could not suppress my feelings afterward of how he made me feel. The first two times were on fire, but the third time became HELL.

After driving for over 4 hours back & forth to a nearby city, he abandoned my heart, gave me a 6 minute touch n go and left me for the WOLVES.

I cried, telling myself I would never go back with him ever again.

Let's fast forward to today, since my break up with Scorpio back in Feb '12 I moved on to have another rebound encounter with a Cancer male who left me feeling insecure and unloving.

But guess what? Scorpio has since then continually texted me on the past months to tell me he LOVED me, take him back, he would do better.

I can not be mean to men, men are my down fault to life. I love men, I am a girly girl who loves men- the smell, the essence, the vibe, the swag, shirts, cologne the fiber of a "man".

So I could not be hateful or be mean to Scorpio and somehow he seduced me again with his words, his voice until I was back at it again- tryin to give it another chance. Why?

Hell, if I know (right).

Something about a scorpio man that draws me, chases me, interest me, challenges me to want to give him some - lol!

And now I sit at my desk today, pondering if I will meet him again in the next few hours to rekindle my heart.

I don't know?

only time will tell,

These same rules apply to a Scorpio woman. Trust me. Reading this was like looking in the mirror.

Damn, you really have figured this out huh? Interesting. I honestly dont like the idea that something such as zodiac has pretty much keyed in to my personality (majority of it), but ecen that feeling i have, is a scorpio trait

She's giving away all our secrets. Everybody, deny all the information in this post. Say it's all false. We must protect the clan. Lol.



Naa, that's a very good description of how the scorpio male reacts to situations. I see you have done your homework.



Very good indeed. :-)

Thank you and I really do what to know what an evolved Scorpio looks like?

Look no further. Here I am. Haha... I have written an article on the subject of the scorpio's ascendency. Look it up, it might be of use to you.

I am a scorpio male and every bit of that is true plain and simple

After over a 100 views, at least someone is brave enough to admit it.