Ten Tips On How To Date A Scorpio MaleThese rules may seem a little standard for most men, but they are EXTRA important for dealing with a Scorpio.
1. Be Prepared. Read everything you can on Scorpios, there is a good chance that you have never met anyone like him before. (I got this a little to late).
2. Be Gentle. We all know that the male ego is fragile, but they are extra sensitive. Make sure they REALLY understand that you respect their opinion and you are not trying to change his values. No matter how much you may really want to.
3. Show Your Loyalty. He is going to give you "trust tests". Let him know that you have nothing to hide. If there is any other zodiac sign that might do a complete background check on you it's a Scorpio. Do not be surprised if he interviews friends, family, coworkers, and ex-boyfriends to find out about you.. I would not engage any male in any form of friendly conversation in his presence they are jealous and possessive. But remember he is going to keep his secrets.
4. Set Boundaries. This is tricky because they are always suspicious and you don't want them to think that you are hiding something. But you have to let them know what you will and won't accept and stick to your guns. If he is intent on violating those boundaries, you had better find out why and do not accept some non-chalant answer either like " I just wanted to know" trust me, there is a method to his madness.
5. Praise. Do this every time you catch him doing something even remotely pleasing to you or any small accomplishments that he has.
6. No Teasing. This includes making general comments that you notice about his habits, personality, and values. He may do it you, but do not expect to have that same privilege back. Do not tease him in a playful manner either because I guarantee at somepoint it will be misconstrued. This leads to number 7.....
7. Negative Comments. If they make to many negative comments about you, then run do not walk away from this relationship. Scorpios either like you or they don't.
8. Communication. Even when speaking in general conversation, make sure they understand this is not personal about you or him. You may even want to start the conversation that way, "This has nothing to do with you or me......".---see number 2. Plus, they think they are psychic and understand everybody's motivation, so if they guess your motivation wrong, let them know, but remember to be gentle. They hate to be disgareed with. Since they are so emotional expect their opinions to change often.
9. Withhold Sex. The sex with a Scorpio is great. I mean really great. I would really hold off on this until you know if number 7 has been fulfilled or if you are the type of person to get emotionally attached after sex (which most women are) I would just say no. Plus, they have a reputation for being easy to sleep with and you want the commitment.
10. Let Him Lead. They don't like to be controlled by anyone especially a female. Feminine tricks do not work. Tell them straight what you want and why. They play by their own set of rules, so let them make up their own mind.
Bonus....They have a temper like no other. Be careful what you reveal and say to them because it can be turned around and used against you.No matter how mad you get hold your composure and your ground.
If you succeed here is your prize.....
A Scorpio is extremely loyal and will go to the length of laying down his life for his loved ones.If you are willing to deal with a Scorpio man, then you will have a loyal friend. If you are the right type of woman, then you can keep a Scorpio man in a relationship and have one of the most intense loves ever and do not forget the amazing sex. They are very protective. They will do all of the little things in the relationship that they care.
taytriscar 36-40, F 14 Responses 5 Apr 9, 2012