Scorpio Man And Aries Woman :p

Hi! I just want to share my story about a guy that I've met which is a Scorpio. So we went on a friendly date yesterday, and as an aries woman, I was very intrigued on the way he talked to me, the way he shared his stories, and of course the way he was stared at me.When we watched a movie yesterday, (the avengers) and every time the hulk does something "crazy" it really makes me laugh :) and everytime I laugh he always looks at me , but my laugh is not the overly exaggerated laugh or something :/ I dunno why and every time I do something for example I was texting my friend (girl) he was always looking at our conversation which makes me feel uneasy.. Anyway, he always makes me laugh :) and  we have a lot of likes rather than dislikes. oh and while we were in the movies, he keep on placing his hands on my legs. I know that for sure he wants something from me, but I don't want to rush things. I know how to respect him and also to myself. He is also very shy when it comes to approaching me because he said that he doesn't want  to do anything "stupid" that would make me think that what he is doing was wrong, and We actually got a long together. Then when we were in the car because he was going to drop me off at my house and he said to me in a cute shy way "uhm, would like a 5 second kiss? Of course it is without any wrong thinking or something" and I was shocked and I think he saw my facial reaction and then after that he said "but if you don't like it's fine with me". I then told him "you know I like challenges right?" with a grin on my face :D. then we just kissed but as he said A 5 second kiss. It was quick and the funny thing after I kissed him for 5 seconds, his face went 0.0 that's it? I then smiled and said "well you said a 5 second  kiss right?" and I smiled after. He laughed so hard after that. So I finally got home and when we talked on the phone, he can;t stop talking about the "5 second kiss" that we did :p. He said next time let's make it a one minute kiss and we both laughed. He also said that he thought I was feeling uneasy when he placed his arms on my shoulders while we were walking, and I said of course not, there's nothing wrong with that :) he is the most honest guy that I've dated. He is a really nice guy and we both like to talk a lot of things especially games :p. He admitted to me that he got "hot" the minute he placed his hands on my legs in the cinema. I told him that "okay let's make a deal, let's be open when it comes to sex topics" I really don't know what got into me but he agreed. He told me that he was really shy in approaching me, he don't know how tell me that he wanted to kiss me, and I find it really CUTE :D. I told him it's okay :) Don't worry I understand what you mean and I won't take it the wrong way. So until now, we did the usual thing that we do,.. we text a lot..and I mean A LOT. I even worry that he is texting while he is driving and I said , "can you just text me when you're done driving?". I do care for him a lot and he does the same to me :). The way he tells me "don't forget ti eat your dinner, breakfast and lunch :)" He is the sweetest person I've met and he is also so gentle when holding my hands :) it just makes me blush a lot.. But I'm afraid that maybe he's just playing with my feelings..But that doesn't affect our friendship and we still continue seeing each other :) at least twice a week. So that's my story :D I have a big respect for all scorpio's..Because my mom is one :D and I love her so much even though we fight all the time lol.  
czacza18 czacza18
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5 Responses May 7, 2012

Hello czacza18... omg i love ur story is so nice.. i met a german guy and he is scorpio.. i met him online and he snet a nice message telling " i was a very attarcive latina" so he lives 3 hours from my house .. so we told me he would come to see me. as i know he does not have acar i told him we could meet half way.. so he is practically planning to stay on the beach for 2 nights.. so now im asking to myself should i sleep in separte beds? i mean i dont have any interest to sleep with him cos i dont know him.. so im trying to think what to do.. i dont wanna look too fussy and neither like an easy girl.. he told me he would call me this aftrenoon to confirm if we are meeting cos he is working and he does not know if he will able to take one or 2 nights off work.. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh im nervousssssssssssssssss

Im an Aries girl and I have to say than pisces guys are the best lovers and friends of the zodiac... They give unconditional love... After them you may never feel the same for anyone else... when a Pisces and Aries connect it is on a soul level. it is something very special and rare. Aries you will find happiness and peace with a Pisces... Scorpio is likely make a change in your life for the worse but Pisces will make a change for the better.<br />
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Im an Aries girl and I have to say than pisces guys are the best lovers and friends of the zodiac... They give unconditional love... After them you may never feel the same for anyone else... when a Pisces and Aries connect it is on a soul level. it is something very special and rare. Aries you will find happiness and peace with a Pisces... Scorpio is likely make a change in your life for the worse but Pisces will make a change for the better.

I'm going to do something that a lot of other scorpios don't do...indulge trade secrets :)<br />
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From your story, it would seem to me he takes an interest. We don't go for things unattainable and this goes for relationships. If we go for a woman, we are usually sure that she wants us. So if that was your first kiss, as a man he will work up the courage to ask for one, but as a scorpio he will do it in the least overt way possible so that if you did refuse he could keep his pride intact (I do believe scorpio pride rivals that of even a leo). Also, we like to be in control but in a way that others think they are in control...we like power over the mind. So long as you give into the request, he has control (at least in his mind...and indeed if you think it isn't control, then he is controlling in a way only scorpio can). That said, a scorpio who likes someone does not think of himself, but rather his partner...so any "controlling" is done specifically in the best interests of the relationship in general and the partner in specific. We are extremely emotional and selfless. This comes with a price, however, which as an Aries you may find yourself facing someday. First, if we feel we have lost or are losing control, we get quite moody. Things absolutely MUST go our way...we are very practical and analytical and there really isn't such a thing as subjective thinking for us. Right is right, wrong is wrong...and we're always right. The second thing is do not upset us. The reason for this is that though we upset some people we care about, we never intend to. Our intentions are pure and when someone does something to us out of pure spite or anger and willfully tries to hurt us (maybe they thought we did something to hurt them), it feels like all the love and emotion we spent on the person got trampled on. The scorpio "sting" is not about hurting other people (we actually don't like doing that) but rather about trying to get them to understand and FEEL an approximation of how much we are hurting. It should be more akin to a bee sting, since just as a bee dies, when we do sting, part of us dies. So, if you want this relationship to work, I'd suggest one thing for each of you. On your part, realize that a scorpio does not mince words or lie about his feelings. If he says he likes you...and especially one day if he says he loves you...accept it and be happy that you are with a man capable of giving more love than anyone else...more love, more loyalty, and more security. Don't test him or play games...just be happy together. For his part, as aries needs a modicum of freedom, he needs to learn to be the eagle and soar above his need to control. He will have to be trusting. Scorpio has the hardest time to get over their vices, yet no other sign can transform more splendidly than Scorpio. <br />
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Now I wonder why I wrote this...oh yes...my moon is in gemini :)) Good luck to the both of you.

I'm a Scorpio woman and I am only going to give you MY viewpoint..not sure what Scorpio men are like..LOL If I'm that attentive to someone it usually means I really like them. I tend to go a bit overboard on staying in contact. If he is feeling the need to constantly text you it may mean he likes you, which you most likely already know. I was also in a relationship with an Aries male. I know I needed to give him his space but it was hard. If he is making you feel a bit smothered, don't ignore him. Just kindly let him know that you like him too but are needing some space, please do it as gently as possible. Even though us Scorpios KNOW it's the right thing to do..sometimes it still hurts.<br />
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Hope that helps some