I Need Sex!!I married my husband because I loved him... and I still do. But we rarely have sex anymore and it has only been 2 years of marriage. I used to have sex every day or every other day with my ex. It was a thrilling sex life and I loved that but, he was an *******. Now with my husband we started off having sex just once a week, which I thought was not enough but I let it slide. Then it went on to every 2 weeks. Now it has been just 2x in this year... I cannot imagine a life like this. I love him and I do not want to get divorced but it is getting to the point where it physically hurts (or at least it feel that way). I am Peggy from Married with Children. Aren't the men the one who are suppose to have the high sexual drive.
My husband will not do anything at all about it... Not see a doctor or work on it. To him there is no problem.. because he is not the one with the problem. That is what hurts the most. He tells me I have to let it go, get used to it... that sex is not important. He says I just make it worst by complaining. I don't know what else to do. I cry all night about this while he is sleeping in the other room.
I am only 28 and he is 30, I dont get this. I feel soo unwanted.
Lillith13 26-30, F 13 Responses 3 May 7, 2011