Want To Be Loved By A Man In Love W/ My Soul & My Curves

So I haven't always been a BBW. I grew up having family members desperately trying to fatten me up because I was so very skinny, and up until my early 20's I enjoyed the attention my smallness garnered me from the opposite sex. Fast forward 13yrs, two kids and one divorce and I've gone from a size 9 to a size 16. I have big boobs, butt and thighs! My butt is really what surprises most people when they meet me...let's say it leaves you with a lasting impression!

I cannot say I have not dated men, because I have. Nor can I say I have not felt desired, because I have! What I cannot say is that since my divorce I've known the wonderful feeling of having a long term relationship, because I have not. The longest I had lasted 7-8 months. They all ended pretty much the same way, the sex is amazing but that's pretty much all they wanted from me. A lot of them periodically check up on me to see if I'm still single, once that's confirm they inevitably attempt to start a booty-call like relationship!

Folks I'm done with it!! I want more! I can give more! Because I'm big and sensual does it mean I'm not worthy of love and romance? I want to be in love with a man who's in love with my soul! A man who wants and can give me all of his time. Where I feel like I am a priority to him as much as he is one to me.

Am I asking too much? Is there a man out there with a great sense of humor, a career and a joie de vivre that just so happens to love curvaceous women?!
Featherliketouch Featherliketouch
36-40
11 Responses Jul 18, 2010

bbw are so pretty nd sexy

I'm a little young but you sound wonderful

Hello there. I am 19 male. My name is Aakash Trivedi. I live in California. Idk where you live but I was wondering if I could give you my number? WE could just talk about anything lol. I can give compliments and try to make you laugh if you are feeling down? 1 408 772 8919. You are very beautiful and it would be fun to talk with. Text or call me? Just make sure you tell me who you are lol. And I am pretty sure all of your pictures are beautiful :) Again, I meant nothing weird haha. Just trying to be friendly and to show that we love you :) kisses

You're definitely not asking too much. There are guys out there that like large and very large women too.

hi, well you should be proud of what you are, if people don't like you then it is thier problem. Facial, body beauty is temporary, they fade away in time, but the real beauty of heart nevre dies, if someone likes you he will like you from within, never let yourself down coz people dont like you. Everyone is unique in thier own ways.<br />
Cheers

I love chubby women. They just have more character. Most all chubby women, bbw's, I have met I have liked. Their is always the one's with the attitudes but many sincerely good BBW's out there that share in the same likes as their man.<br />
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Anyways, I'm a BBM and it's hard on my side to find the right woman because I'm A pretty big man. So anyways I give it up to all BBW's because they need to find a good man too.

GO like 90, nothing to stop you. Head Up and Proud. Take Care.

LOL! Well it's Sunday evening and I'm kind of busy at home, but definitely I will wow them next weekend!! <br />
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But on a serious tip, I will start sticking to my guns and my standards and I won't bow down to nonsense anymore!

You brought a tear to my eye, I feel so good that I was able to help. Now go out there and show them who's the Lady with the Smarts!!!!!!! WOW THEM!!!!!!!!!!! Take Care.

Wow! Thanks Paddytram! Your wisdom has put a huge smile on my face and has made my day...thank you very much!

Carry yourself like the Lady that you really are, if they want just want that, boot them out! Go to events that attract people who are above that. Carry yourself confident and proud and don't put up with the lowlifes. Speak in a refined tone, let them know First you are a Lady, Second you are intelligent, and Third you have standards.