Happy Being a Single MomIt has been 5 years now that I became a single mom of 4. My children are all with me. The first(I adopted when she was 10 is now a nurse). The second in now in the university. The third is in highschool and the fourth in grade school. What a spread...It is a struggle and really very challenging. But in the end, I am more happy now than when I was married. Family and friends notice the positive change in me.
I learned so much about what a relationship should be when I was going through marriage counselling together with my ex before I finally filed for annulment. There are three reasons that should not happen in a marriage or any relationship for that matter. If there is physical, financial or emotional abuse, the aggrieved party should leave as soon as he/she can. Easier said than done but it is possible to leave an abusive partner.
I am writing this, for women like me who is currently struggling in an abusive relationship. I want to say that they have a choice. They have to choose their life because that is all they have. It is not easy but there is no other way...