So I have a son who is about a year and a half. I am also pregnant again. Same father. He told me as soon as I got pregnant again he wanted nothing to do with me relationship wise but he would be there for the kids. It is something I have been struggling to accept. Today I went to drop my son off for a visit with him and he has a huge hickie on his neck. It shouldn't bother me, but does. I have talked to people on here but then they stop responding and it sucks. I just want someone to talk to.
I know I deserve better. I just wish he was a better father. He barely sees his son because he doesn't have time...but apparently he has time for another women and not his son. My son deserves a better father and I feel like I failed him by giving him the one he has.
DarlingAnna DarlingAnna
22-25, F
5 Responses Aug 29, 2014

You're a wonderful mother, ok? Don't think otherwise. He shouldn't have left you. Having kids is something a man should LOOK FORWARD TO! I genuinely hope you guys are ok. :(

I am pregnant with my first with a man I have been with for 10 and 1/2 years. He is leaving and I have nobody. I feel very upset that he would rather go to the bar than be a dad. I feel your pain. You are more than welcome to chat me up anytime. I will keep you in my thoughts.

My son's father left me after 5 yrs. because I decided to keep our child, the day my son was born I felt in my heart I made the right choice. If I could do it all over again I'd make the same choice, I love my son.

Men can stupid like that. I have daughter myself and her father expecting another child mind you this will be his 3rd child & baby mama. His not there for the child we created but yet his producing more.
Don't feel like a failure, continue to love and care for your son & the lil one on the way..
Take what's happening as a learning experience & Move forward with your life. Feel free to inbox anytime xx

I'm going through a similar situation. My son is 19 months and I'm 38 weeks pregnant. We found out 2 days after my sons first bday. A month later he decided he was through. He still looked out for my son and my daughter ( from previous relationship) but he came and went as he pleased. It was very crazy. We could speak more if you want inbox me